femme on a mission

The Basics


femme on a mission


Rhode Island

About Me

About Me

I like boxer dogs (specifically my boxer dog) and Lady GaGa. Also poetry, ANTM, and androgynous women (specifically my partner). I believe in love.

Check All That Apply

Lesbian, Gay, Femme





Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet, Business Contacts

Relationship Status

In a Relationship


I have a big heart. The biggest.


I'm super sensitive. If you look at me the wrong way, I'll cry. And I procrastinate like a mother. Also those sugar cookies at the grocery store with icing on top. I can't stop.

Are You Out To Your....

Member(s) of Immediate Family, Close Friends, All Friends, School/Work

What I Like

Favorite Books

My Antonia, Women Who Run with the Wolves, The Grapes of Wrath, The Story of Mankind, Stone Butch Blues

Favorite Queer Books


Favorite Movies

Devdas, Across the Universe, Into the Wild, BBC Pride and Prejudice

Favorite Documentaries

Supersize Me, The Life and Times of Harvey Milk, For the Bible Tells Me So, Helvetica, Busting Out, Stonewall Uprising, Before Stonewall

Favorite TV Shows

Glee, America’s Next Top Model, Pretty Little Liars, Criminal Minds

Favorite Music

Lady GaGa, Lady GaGa, Lady GaGa, James Taylor, Cat Stevens, Paul Simon, Priscilla Ahn, Brandi Carlile, Lady GaGa, Beyoncè, Indigo Girls, Nickel Creek, Lady GaGa, Red Molly, Tracy Chapman, Lady GaGa, The Temptations. Oh, and Lady GaGa.

Favorite Sandwich

ham and cheese on whole wheat bread

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

my sexy fiancèe

Favorite Quotes

To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting. – e.e. cummings

Favorite Thing on Autostraddle.com

Riese Laniea Rachel

Favorite Writers

e. e. cummings