The Basics




Santa Barbara, CA

About Me

About Me

Overly enthusiastic, nerdy, abundantly queer. I party hard with my cats and my fandoms.

Check All That Apply

Lesbian, Queer, Genderqueer, Pansexual, Sexually Fluid, "Label-Free"


be as interesting as possible



Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet, Queer Friends to Make Out With

Relationship Status

It's Complicated, Forever Alone

Are You Out To Your....

Everybody, It's Complicated

What I Like

Favorite Queer Books

Tipping the Velvet, Sapphistries, Surpassing the Love of Men

Favorite Movies

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Donnie Darko, Thelma and Louise, Bridesmaids

Favorite Documentaries

Bowling for Columbine, Roger and Me, Exit Through the Gift Shop, The Corporation, US vs. John Lennon

Favorite TV Shows

Doctor Who, BBC Sherlock, House, 30 Rock, SNL (when it’s not racist or homophobic or transphobic)(but whatever)

Favorite Music

Devendra Banhart, Florence and The Machine, Iron Maiden, Led Zeppelin, Animal Collective, Fleet Foxes, Rammstein, Weakling, Groovy thangs, Velvet Underground, Magnetic Fields, Kimya Dawson, Grizzly Bear, Joy Division, Of Montreal, The Smiths, Bikini Kill, Sisters of Mercy, Patti Smith, The Clash, X-Ray Spex, Leæther Strip, Covenant

Favorite Sandwich

Anything with pesto

Favorite Thing on Autostraddle.com

anything on the “BDSM” or “bondage” tag, “Congrats, New Grads! By the Way, You Don’t Know Anything”

Favorite Writers

Albert Camus, Kurt Vonnegut, Margaret Atwood, J. D. Salinger, Arthur Rimbaud, Allen Ginsberg, Jack Kerouac, Patti Smith, Mary Shelley, Walt Whitman