The Basics





About Me

About Me

I’m a nerdy academic, queer lady, & intersex activist. Addicted to peanut butter m&ms. Eternally trying to make my long hair look visibly queer without undercutting. Likes cats. Will spill everything.

Check All That Apply

Lesbian, Gay, Queer, Genderqueer, Femme, Other


Be yourself, and be nice to people.


Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet, Business Contacts

Relationship Status

In a Relationship


Nice; good validator; will cook you yummy things


Sleeps forever; accomplished procrastinator

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What I Like

Favorite Books

Matilda (Roald Dahl); Harriet The Spy (Louise Fitzhugh); The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time (Mark Haddon); Everything Is Illuminated (Jonathan Safran Foer)

Favorite Queer Books

Inferno (Eileen Myles); The Nearest Exit May Be Behind You (S. Bear Bergman); Gender Outlaws: The Next Generation (edited by Kate Fuckin’ Bornstein and S. Bear Bergman)

Favorite Movies

Dead Poet’s Society; The Breakfast Club; But I’m A Cheerleader; Imagine Me & You; Jurassic Park

Favorite Documentaries

The Corporation (2003); Ballerina (2009)

Favorite TV Shows

Arrested Development; Battlestar Galactica; Doctor Who; Downton Abbey; Lip Service; Major Crimes; RuPaul’s Drag Race Strangers With Candy; The West Wing; The Wire;

Favorite Music

Bach; Feist; Go Sailor; Le Tigre; MEN; Metric; The New Pornographers; The Police; Radiohead; Rainer Maria; Royksopp; The Smoking Popes; Scared of Shaka; The Shins; The Thermals; Uh Huh Her; The Weepies

Favorite Sandwich

Cheese, tomato, and lettuce or basil on Italian bread.

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

My entire mattress.

Favorite Thing on

First Person pieces; coming out stories

Favorite Writers

Jonathan Safran Foer; Eileen Myles