The Basics




the house with the "remember Jan.6" sign

About Me

About Me

Ready to start the commune!  Down with patriarchy! Bring the cats,too.

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philosophical realist vegetarian, listening to the cat goddess within me,also"With Coffee All Things Are Possible!"

Looking For

Queer Friends on the Internet

Relationship Status

It's Complicated, Rebounding


cats, dog, nature and culture-lover, Gemini


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Are You Out To Your....

It's Complicated

What I Like

Favorite Queer Books

The Price of Salt—–guess the others (so far) are “porn.”(!)

Favorite Movies

Desert Hearts,Whip It,Garden State, A River Runs Through It,Fried Green Tomatoes, Norwegian Wood,Lost in Translation,Brokeback Mountain,Thank you for Smoking,many others

Favorite Documentaries

Bowling for Columbine,Roger and Me, also nature/wild animals ones

Favorite TV Shows

of course Rachel Maddow,  Call the Midwife,probably permanently warped by Monty Python long ago (also Black Adder).

Favorite Music

R & B, Motown,classic rock,jazz,folk-rock,classical,some techno

Favorite Sandwich

grilled cheese or veggie burger or pbj & apple

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

Republicans (JK!)

Favorite Quotes

“Love does not begin and end the way we often think it does.”—-James Baldwin

Favorite Thing on Autostraddle.com

everything! its all great, but especially TIRTIL, political/news coverage,also.also.also, Friday Open Thread,Comment Awards (&their comments),fashion by zodiac—–brilliant!

Favorite Writers

Alice Munro, Margaret Atwood, Conrad Aiken(poetry),Joyce Carol Oates,Toni Morrison,Upton Sinclair, Joan Didion,David Sedaris, others