The Basics





About Me

About Me

I cuss like a sailor and I have an (un)healthy obsession with Pearl Jam/Eddie Vedder. I also have a dog.


I'm not sure…but there is something in the ether. Just be kind.

Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet

Relationship Status



Kindness and Generosity.



Are You Out To Your....

Members(s) of Extended Family, Close Friends

What I Like

Favorite Books

Perks of Being a Wallflower, Hunger Games Trilogy, Divergent Trilogy, It’s Kind of a Funny Story, The Giver, A Walk Across America, The Alchemist, Tell the Wolves I’m Home, Sharp Objects

I don’t read enough…

Favorite Movies

Elizabethtown, Breakfast Club, Into the Wild, Darjeeling Limited, Harry and the Hendersons, The Family Stone, Mangus!, The Four Faced Liar, Pan’s Labyrinth, How to Train Your Dragon, 50/50, Big Fish, Easy A, Perks of Being a Wallflower, Madagascar 3! (seriously that movie is adorable.)

Favorite Documentaries

Pearl Jam Twenty
The Heretics
West Memphis 3 (three part doc)
Metal Evolution (doc series)
One Direction: This Is Us!

I think my favorite documentaries are the ones I catch on the DOC channel and HBO randomly.

Favorite Music

Have I mentioned I like Pearl Jam? Because I do.
I like indie/folk, 90’s grunge, and shitty pop.
Bon Iver, Incubus, Fleet Foxes, Blue Bear, Indigo Girls, Tracy Chapman, Defiance Ohio, Misfits, Tegan & Sara, Decemberists, Ryan Adams, Bob Dylan, Beatles, Fleetwood Mac, Soundgarden, Local Natives, Blind Melon, CCR, Metallica, Cranberries, Brandi Carlile, Ben Howard, One Direction…this list is expansive.

Favorite Sandwich

turkey with mayo.

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle


Favorite Quotes

“Pursue, keep up with, circle ’round and ’round your life as a dog does his master’s chair. Do what you love. Know your own bone, gnaw it, bury it, unearth it and gnaw it still.
Do not be too moral. You may cheat yourself out of much life so aim above morality. Do not be simply good; be good for something. All fables indeed have their morals, but the innocent enjoys the story.
Let nothing come between you and the light. Respect men as brothers only.
When you travel to the celestial city, carry no letter of introduction. When you knock, ask to see God. None of the servants.”
Henry David Thoreau

Favorite Thing on

all of it!!!