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A state not gay enough to marry in….yet.

About Me

About Me

Just doing me since 1987.

I’m a lucky girl. I’m outspoken. I’m obscure. I’m loved. I wouldnt have it any other way.

I <3 Autostraddle! ….and puppies, and coffee, and Sundays with my beautiful lady :)

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One love.

Relationship Status

In a Relationship


Live. Laugh. Love.


Coffee. Diet Coke. Snuggling. iPhone.

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What I Like

Favorite Books

Alice in Wonderland and Through the Looking Glass

Favorite Queer Books

Disco Bloodbath

Favorite Movies

Empire Records. Alice in Wonderland (all of them!). Blow. Moulin Rouge. Across the Universe. Who Framed Roger Rabbit.

Favorite Documentaries

Forks Over Knives. The Gerson Miracle. This Film is not Yet Rated. For My Wife. Bowling for Columbine. Prodigal Sons. AKA Tommy Chong. Fat, Sick, and Nearly Dying.

Favorite TV Shows

The L Word. Six Feet Under. Roseanne’s Nuts. Ancient Aliens. US of Tara. Nurse Jackie. Daria. American Horror Story. Walking Dead.

Favorite Music

Most Alt Rock circa 1990’s. Blind Melon. Foo Fighters. Alanis Morissette. Lily Allen. MGMT. Kings of Leon. Savage Garden. Marilyn Manson. The Beatles. RHCP. Sublime. 311. Michael Franti and Spearhead. Counting Crows. Uh Huh Her. Bon Iver. Blues, Classic Rock, things that are Not Country. Anything with a good beat.

Favorite Sandwich

Grilled cheese with avocado, tomato, and fresh basil.

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

John Jameson. (on the rocks of course).

Favorite Quotes

“Leave your ego at the door, play the music, love the people.” – Luther Allison

“Live. Laugh. Love.”

“And I know we can’t all stay here forever, so, I want to write my words on the face of today. And then they’ll paint it.” – Shannon Hoon

Favorite Thing on

Umm, everything!

Get Baked!

Up to date info on things that actually matter. The perfect balance of humor, seriousness, happy, sad, and everything in between!

Pictures of ridiculously cute kittens doing ridiculously cute things.
Interacting with other intelligent and overly sarcastic lesbos ;)

Favorite Writers

“Lewis Carroll.” Anne Rice. James St. James. Stephen King.

Everyone at Autostraddle.