The Basics




Grand Rapids, Michigan

About Me

About Me

I am a bisexual cis-woman. I’m married to a straight cis-man, and only in the summer of 2014 did I accept my feelings for girls weren’t just for THOSE girls, but many girls, and that the experimentation I did wasn’t so much experimentation as just a really good time. My husband is supportive and agreed to open our relationship for me to date. I’m still trying to figure out who I need to come out to, and who I want to come out to. Oh, and I teach English to people living in South Korea, and I have to stay closeted or at least discreet for my job.

Check All That Apply

Bisexual, Queer, Femme


Theological noncognitivism

Relationship Status

Married, Open Relationship, Non-Monogamous Relationship

What I Like

Favorite Books

Kai Lung Unrolls His Mat by Ernest Bramah, Turnip Pie and Other Stories by Rebecca Cummings, the Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down by Anne Fadiman, The Left Hand of Darkness by Ursula K. Le Guin, An Ordinary Person’s Guide to Empire by Arundhati Roy, Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim by David Sedaris, and The Sadness of Sex by Barry Yourgrau.