The Basics





About Me

About Me

Sober older lesbian – lived in the country most of my life… Enjoy being outside & the smell of the earth. I have two daughters (both older teens now) who have shown me most of what I know about loving with no strings attached.

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Lesbian, Queer



Relationship Status


What I Like

Favorite Books

I have probably read thousands of books in my life – fiction to non fiction… Probably read a thousand more… My preference – lesbian feminist philosophy to sci fi

Favorite Queer Books

The Wanderground; or any other SciFi Utopian lesbians rule the world type epics (like The Hadra series or the series by Jean Stewart circa 1990’s or Kathryn V Forrest…)

Favorite Movies

Saw Carol recently also Desert Hearts when it first came out in the 1980’s – Never seems to be enough representation… Although much more than when I came out.

Whoever wants to join a queer grrrl film fest – I am all in.


Favorite TV Shows

Recently The 100… Binged OITNB, Got into 6 feet under (made me cry during the final episode)

Currently, cable – less and watching Netflix

Favorite Music

Eclectic – from 1960’s to ’80’s rock to blues guitar like JJ Cale & Stevie Ray Vaughn to Etta James & Sheryl Crowe and older womyn’s music like Ferron, Lucie Blue Tremblay, to Indigo Girls & Tracy Chapman …

Loved Julie Nunes ‘Make Out’ video

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle


Favorite Quotes

“She who can laugh at herself is eternally amused”

Favorite Thing on Autostraddle.com

The very fact of your existence