Abby Frenes

The Basics


Abby Frenes


San Francisco

About Me

About Me

I write in the mornings, I play music in the afternoons, I read and take pictures until the sun is finally set, and during the night time…I’m a fan of fine dining- and by “fine” I obviously mean hole in the walls with bomb ass food.

h0Ll3r @ ya GiRlL

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Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet, Queer Friends to Make Out With, A Girlfriend, Business Contacts

Relationship Status

Single, It's Complicated


compassion, lively mind & heart, creative, imaginative, humor


plenty you can discover for yourself, I assure you.

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What I Like

Favorite Books

Immortality (beautifully written, I’m a huge Kundera fan.)
The curious incident of the dog in the Night-Time
Jane Eyre

Favorite Queer Books

I started reading Drenched, but my ex girl friend pulled the whole “give me all of my books back” but I still haven’t gotten any of mine back… awkward

Favorite Movies

The Fountain, Eternal Sunshine

Favorite Documentaries

Call and Response
Born into Brothels

Favorite TV Shows

South of Nowhere was such a great show, L word- of course, office, flight of the conchords.

I’m also a fan of the history channel… i know… w/e.

Favorite Music

The Books, Sigur Ros, Andrew Bird, Laura Marling, The Xx, Stateless, Uh Huh Her, The Dodos… etc

Niki Minaj <3

Favorite Sandwich

lately, the turkey artichoke panini from Panera, shits GOOD

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle


Favorite Quotes

“The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers.”
-M.Scott Peck

Favorite Thing on

I like finding things within the media on lesbianism. The reviews are also pretty hilarious, but it’s always interesting catching up on the political aspect of the gay community. So… i guess i just like austraddle as a whole.

Favorite Writers

Milan Kundera, Anne Lamotte, Dave Eggars, David Sedaris, Rainer Maria Rilke….etc