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Judge Orders Suspension of Gay Soldiers Discharge Under DADT For Real

As of 12 PST today, the military is barred from enforcing Don’t Ask Don’t Tell, thanks to judge Virginia Phillips.

By Rachel| October 12, 2010 | 23 Comments
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Gay Adoption in Florida: You Lose Some/Often But You Win Some Too

This week has been disheartening for a lot of us queer activists, but cheer up a little bit because Legal Eagle Jessica is here to share some GOOD NEWS about gay adoptions in Florida.

By Jessica| September 24, 2010 | 8 Comments
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DADT Ruled Unconstitutional: Don’t Ask Don’t Tell is Told Not To Ask, We’re Told

Today a US District Court judge ruled that Don’t Ask Don’t Tell violates the First and Fifth amendments, and issued an injunction to stop the military from further discharges. We also had no idea this was even happening today.

By Rachel| September 10, 2010 | 49 Comments
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Judge Walker Strikes Again: Gay Marriage Returns to California ON AUGUST 18

California gay couples can now get married starting on August 18! Walker denied the (permanent) stay of his decision in the Prop 8 trial.

By Sarah| August 12, 2010 | 30 Comments
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Costa Rica Says Yes To The (Lesbian Wedding) Dress

Costa Rica’s solution to Prop 8 was to not let voters pass one — an attempt to have a voter referendum banning civil unions was shot down by the nation’s top court. We support this policy, and want everyone to learn a lesson from our friends and neighbors in Latin America.

By Rachel| August 11, 2010 | 16 Comments
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BREAKING: Judge Walker’s Ruling on the Prop 8 Gay Marriage Trial – GAYS WIN

Judge Walker’s ruling on the constitutionality of California’s anti-gay Proposition 8 was handed down today: we give you the rundown, and ask for your thoughts. HOLY FUCKING SHIT, DID WE ACTUALLY JUST WIN?

By Rachel| August 4, 2010 | 116 Comments
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