November feels a bit like pent-up tensions screaming at the rooftops. Get ready for big feelings beyond low-key dread and apocalyptic “I guess this is fine now” normalcy. Know your conflict style to embrace this shift.

“Hattie and Ida are… TOGETHER… IN MATCHING SWEATS… BADLY SINGING JODECI AND LAUGHING and if you saw a cuter lesbian moment on television this week, no you didn’t.”

We love queer television because television brings us together, and nothing better defines that spirit than this little homegrown awards contest.

THIS IS A FREJA BEHA POST. Jezebel thinks she’s gay and British Vogue is afraid of it; we think maybe it’s okay for interviews to sometimes be about other things sometimes. Also, science has now found the exact opposite of the Westboro Baptist Church, and it is the San Diego Comic Con. Thank you for all the inventive and refreshing signs, comic-con goers! Also, Marisa Meltzer wants to know where the Darias are at, transgender protections for housing in the US, more recognition of GLBTQ people in rural Ireland, and Thomas Beattie’s third child!

Part of this job is making peace with the fact that I will, in fact, never get everything done that I want to.

“Sometimes winning the switch fight meant kind of losing. When you were both switches, though, everybody won no matter the outcome. It all came down to pride and play.”

In light of last week’s anti-Asian racist murders in Atlanta, this week’s episode — which features Alice continuing to battle against Asian stereotypes in her diversity comedy program — just hit different.

Purgatory’s Trivia Night turns into a competition for who has the tastiest brain and Waverly learns why Nicole has been too afraid to show her face in town.

This afternoon at Sundance, I took a break from binging movies to watch a panel straight out of my queer film nerd dreams.

Melissa Benoist makes her directing debut, Alex eats dumplings, and Lena wears one hell of a suit.

“oh yeah we haven’t even scraped the surface of pandemic sex dreams”

The babe behind the buckles is Emma Alamo — a queer creator, a recovering alcoholic, a proud power bottom and business owner with serious hustle. Emma welcomed me into her studio and talked about social media, body image and building a career selling bondage gear.

The Crisis concludes with some Sara-centric shenanigans and the return of Alex and Dreamer.

On refusal, rest, and resistance.

Chely Wright ignited a media frenzy when she came out last month, but lesbians have had an out country/rock star to call their own for years — Jennifer Corday. With 3 albums and her music featured in films and on TV, Corday is on a roll as she completes her upcoming record. She talks to Autostraddle about being gay in country, why lesbians love girls with guitars, and tells tales of the trouble her Gretchen Wilson “Redneck Lesbo” parody has gotten her into.

Let’s recap the highlights and lowlights for each candidate and talk about what we mean when we bring up “civility.”

48. identifying what episode of The Nanny it is based on C.C. Babcock’s hair

As a perfectionist, I’ll always be more comfortable sharing my shiny conclusions than my messy processes. And the best thing about climbing, for me, is that it’s pure process.

“SHIT WAS GAY HEATHER
SHIT HAS BEEN GAY”

Sara and Ava go back to summer camp together to try to save missing kids and give Ava some childhood memories of her very own.