The Basics



About Me



About Me


At any given time I am probably geeking out about something. It could be musicals, movies (everything from Mulan to The Secretary), interesting articles, superheroes, books, my favorite t.v. shows or this cool cartoon I found on Netflix that I loved as a kid. I’m so excited to be a part of a community like this and hope to make some friends.

Check All That Apply

Gay, Bisexual, Queer, Genderqueer

Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet, A Girlfriend

Relationship Status


Are You Out To Your....

Member(s) of Immediate Family, All Friends, School/Work

What I Like

Favorite Books

Pride and Prejudice, Jane Eyre, Their Eyes Were Watching God, The Ways of White Folks, A Raisin in the Sun, Midsummer Nights Dream, Fingersmith, Whipping Girl, The Color Purple, Feast of All Saints, Perks of Being a Wallflower, Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe, Golden Boy
Series: His Dark Materials, Harry Potter, A Song of Ice and Fire, Ms. Marple & Hercule Poirot mysteries

Favorite Queer Books

*Not sure if all of these count, but reading them I did connect with the Queer content.
The Color Purple, Fingersmith, Feast of All Saints, Redefining Realness, Whipping Girl, Wicked, Perks of Being a Wallflower, Hard Love, Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe

Favorite TV Shows

Buffy, Pretty Little Liars, Daredevil, Flash, Downton Abbey, Community, Veronica Mars,

Favorite Music

I enjoy songs in various genres like showtunes, rap, rock, pop, country, indie, oldies, r & b, crooner and almost any other genre. That said, my favorite songs of all time are Barbara Streisand’s cover of “Moon River”, Queen’s “Under Pressure” and Daughter’s “Youth”

Favorite Sandwich


Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

I love the recaps.

Favorite Quotes

“you can’t make homes out of human beings
someone should have already told you that
and if he wants to leave
then let him leave
you are terrifying
and strange and beautiful
something not everyone knows how to love.” ~ Warsan Shire

“Nice is different than good.” ~ Into the Woods

“If I didn’t define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other people’s fantasies for me and eaten alive.”
~ Audre Lorde

Favorite Writers

Jane Austen, Lorraine Hansberry, Alice Walker, Sarah Rees Brennan, Philip Pullman, Neil Gaiman, Charlotte Bronte, J.K. Rowling, Langston Hughes, Zora Neale Hurston, Julia Serano, Sarah Waters, George R. R. Martin, Agatha Christie