The Basics



About Me


Durham, nc

About Me

bodyworker, healer, movement maker

Check All That Apply

Lesbian, Queer



Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet, Business Contacts

Relationship Status

In a Relationship

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What I Like

Favorite Books

This changes yearly as I grow up and learn more and learn to laugh at myself at different stages. Kerouac at 16 still holds a special place but wow did I need to adventure, get out of my home-town, and challenge the hell out of femininity.

Favorite Queer Books

I need more here…

Favorite Movies

Baby Mama. Also this French movie about the Romani people and orientalism in Eastern Europe.

Favorite Documentaries

Most food and or farm/health docs rock. Also my gf makes me watch lots of these that I assume at the outset will be awful and then they are amazing…

Favorite TV Shows

Parks and Rec, Bones, New Girl, 30 Rock and then whatever I am binging on Netflix at the moment.

Favorite Music

Avett Brothers, Hayes Carll, Lumineers, Sarah Jarosz, The Trishas, Townes Van Zandt, Sam Cooke.

Favorite Sandwich

My friend Peter's "Daymaker" (hint: apples and jalapenos)

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

Everything, its like comfort food.

Favorite Quotes

not that into quotations

Favorite Thing on

the inspirational people and writers, duh.

Favorite Writers

Cornel West, Angela Davis, Melissa Harris-Perry, Kerouac, Edward Abbey, Ann Patchet, Colson Whitehead…
Also I read so much Young Adult Fiction, it’s really all I can read after graduate school. Take me to your favorite dystopian place and I will be content for hours…