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Queer Crip Love Fest: Parenting at the Intersections

“Before becoming a parent, I looked at parenting through rose-colored glasses — with an able-bodied person’s perspective. It was drilled into my head by other people, well-meaning as they were, that I probably shouldn’t have children.”

Carrie April 13, 2017 6 Comments
Two photos side by side. On the left, Kaety (a white person with pink hair in an orange and gray sweater) stands next to their fiance Matt (a white man with brown hair and a beard in a dark sweater). On the right, Kaety smiles as Denim, a black dog with white paws, lies in their lap and licks their face.
Relationships

Queer Crip Love Fest: The Two Great Loves of My Life

“There are people who, when I say I have a chronic illness and try to talk about it, will be like ‘Well, you’re just an adult now.’ I mean, yes, but also, this is real. It does keep me at home a lot. I do have a weakened immune system. I’m not making this up.”

Carrie March 16, 2017 4 Comments
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Relationships

Queer Crip Love Fest: Radically Vulnerable Feminist Pep Talk

“We met on the first day of high school. I was drawn to her for some reason. She was reading; that might have been it. She had glasses; that could have been it, too.”

Carrie February 16, 2017 7 Comments
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Margarita With a Straw Comes to Netflix, (Almost) Delivers the Disabled Queer Character We Need

I had my doubts – because honestly, consuming media as a disabled person is an exercise in disappointment. So I was cautious when Margarita finally popped up on Netflix. Could it be? Was it really that good?

Carrie September 27, 2016 27 Comments

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