relationships ‘My Girlfriend Thinks My Friends Are Judging Her’ “My girlfriend (of just over two years) doesn’t like any of my friends.” Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Apr 21, 2026
friendship ‘I Like Boy Spaces but Sometimes They’re Hard To Be In’ “Finding those spaces that aren’t GROSS to queer people and women is veryyyy difficult.” Reed Motti — Apr 14, 2026
dating ‘I Get So Extremely Anxious for First Dates That I Feel Like I Ruin Them’ “On a first date, I become the most boring, timid, and anxious version of myself.” Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Apr 7, 2026
dating ‘I Can’t Get Over How Close My Partner Is With Their Former FWB’ “I harbor a good deal of guilt and general feelings of failure that I cannot seem to make peace with this extremely standard lesbian experience.” Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Mar 31, 2026
dating ‘Will It Be a Red Flag if I Try To Seriously Date Six Months After a Big Breakup?’ “My partner of almost a decade recently ended our relationship because they realized we wanted different lifestyles.” Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Mar 19, 2026
queer fashion ‘I Just Escaped My Controlling Family and Have No Idea How To Dress Myself’ Make! A! MOODBOARD!!!!!! Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Mar 10, 2026
friendship ‘How Do I Apologize for Mistaking Someone for Someone Else?” “Mistaking someone for another person IS a social faux pas.” Summer Tao — Mar 3, 2026
friendship ‘I Don’t Want To Lose My Friendship’ “I feel so conflicted. This is a friendship of over 20 years.” Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Feb 24, 2026
breakups ‘Well I’m Having Sex With an Ex. How Do I Make Sure I Don’t Catch Feelings?’ Congrats on finding a Sex With an Ex situation that actually sounds pretty low-drama! Now, how can we keep it that way? Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Feb 18, 2026
sex ‘How Can We Navigate My Girlfriend’s Sensitive Nipples?’ Sensory issues are also boundary issues. Summer Tao — Feb 3, 2026
life ‘I’m Obsessed With the Past. How Do I Move On?’ I think you have to go no contact with the past. Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Jan 27, 2026
sex ‘My Partner Wants To Sleep With a Cis Man Without Me’ Polyamory is a state of being, not an aspiration. You aren’t a worse person if you’re unwilling to engage in it. Summer Tao — Jan 20, 2026
