breakups You Need Help: I’m Not Sure I Want To Be Friends With My Ex Sometimes the hardest thing to do is to lean into your gut feeling. Em Win — Jan 2, 2024
holigays You Need Help: How Do I Become Less Afraid of New Year’s and the Expectations it Brings? This time of year inherently brings stress, so please treat yourself with kindness. Em Win — Dec 26, 2023
dating You Need Help: Wanting To Move In Together but Unsure About Sharing Bed With Dog “My girlfriend has a super sweet lab mix who I love dearly, but I’m very new to the concept of sleeping with a dog in the bed. I thought they… Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Dec 19, 2023
health You Need Help: Can My Spouse and I Boil Our Menstrual Cups Together? “Is there any sanitary reason NOT to?” Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Dec 12, 2023
relationships You Need Help: How Do I Make Myself Like My Girlfriend’s Cat? You already did things right by talking about this before moving in together. Now it’s time to talk some more. Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Dec 5, 2023
money + work You Need Help: My Work Mentee Came Out to Me but I Didn’t Come Out to Her There’s definitely a middle ground here: You can come out but also be clear about your boundary of not wanting to discuss your own identity in depth. Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Nov 28, 2023
dating You Need Help: Am I Invisible to Other LGBTQIA People? There isn’t a secret formula for attracting others, but confidence does go a long way. Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Nov 21, 2023
dating You Need Help: Dating Makes Me Sad The best thing you can do for your dating life right now is to actually take a break from dating. Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Nov 14, 2023
relationships You Need Help: I Moved Closer to My Girlfriend but She’s Too Busy for Me The person who moved shouldn’t be the only person experiencing change. Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Nov 7, 2023
identity You Need Help: Am I Erasing Bisexuality? There are many people who will try to be strict about the definition of “bisexual” and “lesbian.” At times, I have been that person. I have also been a person… Analyssa — Oct 31, 2023
dating You Need Help: How Can I Date When I’m So Scared To? Dating requires so much vulnerability, and a fear of rejection can be such a roadblock. So, what can we do to confront that roadblock? Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Oct 24, 2023
breakups You Need Help: How Do I Get Over the First Woman I Slept With? Focusing your energy on moving on and healing rather than trying to reconnect is the best path forward — and not just for you, but for her, too. Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Oct 17, 2023
