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My Kink Is Humiliation, But I’m Too Ashamed to Try It

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How Should We Deal with My Fiancé’s Trumpy Dad on Our Wedding Day?

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Can We Make Sure This New Baby Doesn’t Torpedo Our Friendships?

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My Girlfriend Has Money to Spare, So Can I Ask for a Loan?

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Why Am I the Only Friend Not Invited to the Wedding?

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Will She Dump Me If I Don’t Wanna Join Her Wellness Journey?

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Why Won’t My Gay Coworker Hang Out With Me and My Gay Friends?

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I Don’t Think I’m Hot Enough Anymore To Date on the Apps

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My High School Bully Is Happier Than Me

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I Love Living Alone, But My Girlfriend’s Ready to U-Haul

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Am I a Self-Hating Lesbian for Crushing on a Straight Woman?

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Should I Get Married Before Trump Takes Office?

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