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AF+ Gender

I Treat My Wife Like a Barbie Doll and She Likes It

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and Kristen Arnett discuss the sliding scale of gender expression and how a femme wife is like having an IRL Barbie.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and Kristen Arnett
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Book Features

Benedict Nguyễn Finds Performance On the Page

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Drew Burnett Gregory July 4, 2025 1 Comment
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Movie Features

Saving the Everglades Is a Queer Issue

Queer Floridian Juan Barquin talks to fellow queer Floridian Sasha Wortzel about her new documentary River of Grass and the beauty of the Everglades.

Juan Barquin July 2, 2025 3 Comments
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Movie Features

Eva Victor Didn’t Tell a Woman’s Story

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Rendy Jones June 26, 2025
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Movie Features

Zackary Drucker Is a Complicated Woman

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Movie Features

Fawzia Mirza Is Undeniable

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Drew Burnett Gregory June 20, 2025 2 Comments
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Music

More Than Just a Film Score, Taul Katz’s ‘Just Kids OST’ Beautifully Captures the Many Layers of Young Trans Life

Katz has just released their debut album, a luminous, delicate, and immersive collection of music originally composed for Just Kids, a new documentary that centers the stories of three trans kids and their families living in states where gender-affirming care is banned.

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NOW KISS in the ring at WILL THEY KISS
Comedy

These Queer Comedians Are Fighting…and Kissing

This all-queer comedy, wrestling, drag, and burlesque show asks the very important question: Will They Kiss?

Motti June 12, 2025
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Movie Features

This Trans Woman Has Directed 70 Films Since the ’80s

If you’ve never heard the name Kristiene Clarke, Jaye Hudson aka TGirlsonFilm plans to change that.

Drew Burnett Gregory June 6, 2025 2 Comments
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Comedy

Michelladonna Does It for the Queens Baddies

The people’s prince Michelladonna brings a native New Yorker perspective to NYC comedy.

Motti June 5, 2025 3 Comments
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Nava Mau Is Playing Her Own Game — And Changing the World Along the Way

Watch Emmy nominee Nava Mau’s new film and read about the community work that inspired her film and TV career.

Drew Burnett Gregory May 29, 2025 2 Comments
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Book Features

The Right Isn’t the Only Side We Need To Fight When It Comes to Trans Sports Inclusion

We all know that this sports issue has nothing to do with sports, and it has nothing to do with protecting female athletes. This topic has been a roundabout way to erode rights for transgender people.

Stef Rubino May 27, 2025 4 Comments
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TV Feature

Sabrina Wu Felt Like Tom Cruise on the Set of ‘Murderbot’

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Rendy Jones May 22, 2025 4 Comments
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Book Features

Alison Bechdel Never Thought She’d Be This Successful

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Book Features

Jennifer Beals Is Letting You Into Her Massive ‘The L Word’ Archive

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Sa'iyda Shabazz May 19, 2025 4 Comments
Comedy

Catherine McCafferty Thinks You Should Start Flirting and Stop Apologizing

Every single day, I wake up I say, ‘oh my goodness, I’m so happy I’m gay.’

Gabrielle Grace Hogan May 7, 2025 8 Comments
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Theater

‘Maybe Happy Ending’ Is Helen J. Shen’s Definitely Happy Beginning

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Music

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Elena Dudum April 21, 2025 1 Comment
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Cinema Her Way Marya E Gates interview: side by side author photo and book cover
Book Features Movie Features

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