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Queer Your Wedding Wardrobe: Last-Minute Grooms, Center of Center, Boi-Girls & Classy Cocktail Dresses

In the last installment on out queer survival guide to weddings, we’ve got a tale of two disasters, a guide on finding your balance and advice on giving the right kind of fucks.

By the team| September 7, 2012 | 17 Comments
Fashion/Style

Queer Your Wedding Wardrobe: Finding Your MOC-Style & Dressing in Dresses

On being brave when all you feel is panic and bringing out your inner superhero when your sig oth starts freaking out.

By the team| September 6, 2012 | 24 Comments
Fashion/Style

Queer Your Wedding Wardrobe: The Fashion Doctor Is In

Our three wonderstylists will have you feeling good, looking gorgeous.

By the team| September 5, 2012 | 76 Comments
Fashion/Style

Queer Your Wedding Wardrobe: Real dapperQ East Coast Wedding Style

In which we kick off our four part wedding series with a little inspiration from DapperQ.

By dapperq| September 5, 2012 | 8 Comments
Fashion/Style

How To Wear Skinny Ties, For Femmes and Bois and Everyone In Between

Here’s the most important thing you need to know about skinny ties: You should be wearing one.

By Hansen| August 28, 2012 | 59 Comments
Fashion/Style

PHRESH CUTZ: A Queer Pop-Up Barbershop

Dances with scissors.

By phoenix| August 27, 2012 | 25 Comments
Fashion/Style

The Discerning Butch: A Gift Guide for the Masculine-of-Center Person In Your Life

What to get the queer who has everything. Or what to get yourself because hey, you deserve a present today.

By Kate| August 24, 2012 | 90 Comments
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Woven From Me: “Gender, Bespoke” Explores How Identity Creates Style

“For queer women, clothing is about much more than what you’re wearing. Clothing allows us to create an identity for ourselves—and to control how other people view us and consider us.”

By A.D.| August 10, 2012 | 65 Comments
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We Like Your Shirt, Would Like It Better With Collar Tips

Where have collar tips been all my life?

By Gabrielle Korn| August 9, 2012 | 37 Comments
Fashion/Style

Whites and Teals and Oranges, Oh My: Queer Summer Brunch Style

Oh my word. What the heck are you going to wear to International Autostraddle Summer Brunch Day?!?

By Lizz| July 14, 2012 | 22 Comments
Fashion/Style

The Hottest Summer Swim Boyshorts for the Hottest Summer Bois and Grrrls

Fourteen of my absolute favorite boyshorts. Now we can all dress like the cast of Blue Crush!

By Lizz| July 10, 2012 | 31 Comments
Fashion/Style

He Said/We Said Brings Queer Sartorial Smarts To The Ivies

This time, the handsome models take on the country’s top universities and honey BBQ cheetos.

By dapperq| June 14, 2012 | 35 Comments
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Fashion/Style

A Custom Fit: Tailoring Tips For Wearing Menswear

Good news: the only thing standing between you in your sweatpants and you as a vision in vests is a pair of scissors and a sewing machine.

By Laura| March 15, 2012 | 93 Comments
Fashion/Style

dapperQ’s He Said/We Said Is Ready For New Threads

“If you feel it, Rock it.”

By dapperq| March 13, 2012 | 11 Comments
Fashion/Style

dapperQ’s He Said/We Said Brings Style Inspiration, Diversity, Realness

In which we remember a whole year of sharp-dressed queers and the confidence they’ve given you, with a look ahead to even more Dapper Q, right here on Autostraddle!

By Laneia| February 24, 2012 | 33 Comments
Fashion/Style

New Year’s Eve Fashion Part Two: Maybe You Should Rock a Bow Tie

Are you scared of New Year’s Eve? Do you have/want an awesome bow tie to wear? Let’s talk about that.

By Lizz| December 29, 2011 | 26 Comments
Fashion/Style

Tis the Season to Buy a Blazer

This Black Friday I suggest we all gallantly go out amongst the sobbing mothers and vomiting children and seek our dirt-cheap-deal fortune. This Black Friday, we should all buy ourselves blazers.

By Lizz| November 23, 2011 | 29 Comments
Fashion/Style

How to Get an Alternative Lifestyle Haircut: Soozeecuts Tells All

Just can’t nail down your own personal alternative lifestyle haircut? We know someone who can help.

By M.J.| July 20, 2011 | 99 Comments
Fashion/Style

I’ll Have What She’s Wearing Returns with Jessie, a Cute Tomboy from Atlanta

Remember “I’ll Have What She’s Wearing” in which we stop ordinary lesbians on the street/in their lives and try to figure out how to dress that cool? It’s back.

By Lizz| June 27, 2011 | 49 Comments
Fashion/Style

Lizz’s Latest Thing: Vintage Swimwear for Grrls & Bois

Everything old is new again! Check out these vintage swimsuits!

By Lizz| June 13, 2011 | 23 Comments
Fashion/Style

Lily’s Team Pick: Warby Parker Eyewear

Become a humanitarian by purchasing really cute glasses. Or also just buy them because they will look awesome on you and they don’t cost a million dollars.

By Lily| May 31, 2011 | 35 Comments
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