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Fashion/Style

He Said/We Said: SoCal Late Summer Swag

For our 18th edition of HS/WS, we returned to Cali, this time focusing on SoCal style.

By dapperq| August 26, 2014 | 7 Comments
Fashion/Style

dapperQ’s 100 Most Stylish Features Your Favorite Heartthrobs: Hannah Hart, Ari Fitz and More!

dapperQ just came out with their second list of 100 most stylish individuals, and boy, does it deliver on the dapper!

By Mey| June 24, 2014 | 4 Comments
Fashion/Style

He Said/We Said: Cherry Blossom Swoons

“After a lifetime of having to conform to an image of femininity that weighed on me like a suit of armor, I cannot express how empowering it felt to be embraced and celebrated for my authentic self.”

By dapperq| June 2, 2014 | 9 Comments
Fashion/Style

Color Me Rad: He Said/ We Said Rocks Neutral Tones and Interesting Patterns

Only a set reminiscent of a Dexter crime scene would suffice in capturing the killer outfits we have for you this quarter.

By dapperq| March 7, 2014 | 8 Comments
Fashion/Style

DJ Whitney Day & DapperQ’s Runway Show Featured Hot Dandy Looks, Threw One Dangerously Danceable Party

“Once my people were maligned; tonight we are the talk of the town.”

By Laura Mandanas| February 19, 2014 | 12 Comments
Fashion/Style

You Should Go: DapperQ Fashion Show Extravaganza

The DapperQ Fashion Show, is an act of revolt. It’s a fist in the air for dykes, queer people, gender neutral people, trans people, all the fucking fabulous beautiful people to shout We belong here and We will create our own spaces.

By gabby| January 31, 2014 | 9 Comments
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He Said/We Said: Holiday Hauteness

We’ve rounded up a group of New York City’s most stylish androgynous and masculine gender-queer models to show granny how holiday hotness is done — sans the dress.

By dapperq| November 26, 2013 | 21 Comments
Fashion/Style

Queer Outfit of the Week: Dapper and Cuddly Movie Date

It’s a movie date so you want to be one part dapper chic and one part snuggly! Maybe two parts snuggly.

By Lizz| November 13, 2013 | 15 Comments
Fashion/Style

He Said / We Said: Game-changing Style

Women’s pro-football team, the New York Sharks are winning in these sideline looks.

By dapperq| October 16, 2013 | 15 Comments
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Straddler On The Mountain: Mel

Mel won the Kipper Clothiers campership this time around, and you’ll know why when you see her amazing style. A third-time camper and longtime reader, she talks about Toronto, working at a hotel, her Filipino family, and (duh) A-Camp.

By Vanessa| October 7, 2013 | 21 Comments
Fashion/Style

He Said / We Said: Inspired by Gay St. in the West Village

Rocking navys and grays in the West Village, we’ve got some stylish dapperQs interpreting the Bespoken Spring 2013 Collection.

By dapperq| August 22, 2013 | 9 Comments
Fashion/Style

Team Pick: 100 Most Stylish dapperQs Features Autostraddle’s Gabby, Katrina & Kate!

Mondays are really hard so let’s all take a break and enjoy the glorious gift that is The 100 Most Stylish dapperQs.

By Vanessa| July 29, 2013 | 38 Comments
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Not Your Heteronormative Weekend Getaway: The Survival Guide

Qwear’s Sonny and Champagne just got back from Ptown’s “Ladies” Weekend and have a pocketful of tips – fashion and otherwise – for your next queer weekend away.

By Qwear| June 27, 2013 | 23 Comments
Fashion/Style

Lez Get Dressed For Work: The Working Bois Of Summer

Today I want to talk about how to dress for work when it’s super fucking hot outside and you don’t wear dresses.

By Gabrielle Korn| June 14, 2013 | 31 Comments
Fashion/Style

More Than Words: Dapper? I Hardly Know Her

(After you read this post you will, though.)

By Cara| June 11, 2013 | 17 Comments
Fashion/Style

Feeling Dandy About Being Dapper

“I shouldn’t have to “reclaim” my dapper style. It was all of ours to begin with.” Two essays on dapper from Anita Dolce Vita and Blakeley Calhoun.

By dapperq| June 6, 2013 | 73 Comments
Fashion/Style

He Said/We Said: From Sea to Shining Sea

From California to Maine, June means Pride. We’ve got a spread that’s full of some handsome dapperQs wearing every color of the rainbow.

By dapperq| June 5, 2013 | 29 Comments
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Playlist: Pre-Game Dapper Primpin’

Gotta testify! Come up in the spot lookin’ extra fly!

By dapperq| March 22, 2013 | 6 Comments
DIY/Crafting Fashion/Style

How to Own It: Pocket Squares

Buy it or sew it, fold it, tuck it into your pocket. Just please don’t blow your nose in it.

By Gabrielle Korn| March 21, 2013 | 21 Comments
Fashion/Style

West Coast dapperQs take on He Said/We Said: The Name of the Game is McQueen

All work and no play makes Jack a dull boi.

By dapperq| March 13, 2013 | 29 Comments
Fashion/Style Issues

Briefly Noted: Underwear for Your Masculine Center

What makes “men’s” underwear exclusively for men? Is it still men’s underwear if I’m wearing it? Answers: a) absolutely nothing and b) no, sir.

By phoenix| March 10, 2013 | 72 Comments
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