How to tell if someone’s flirting with you, talking about what you want, the most-searched-for term in porn (has to do with lesbian sex), establishing protocol and more.

Turn on all the lights in the house and come read about the Winchester Mystery House, haunted cabins, songs playing from beyond the veil, and our deeply unsurprising number of experiences with ghost cats.

Valentine’s Day spending, tactile pornography, a new smart vibrator, how degrading sex can be feminist degrading sex and more.

Bad literary sex scenes, what romance means, sex ed and disability, how to have car sex and more.

How we talk about sex, how kink was declassified as a mental illness, physical therapy and your sex life and more.

Think of the 2001 Disney Channel Original Movie Motocrossed without the bikes and plus a whole lot of kink.

“Are you familiar with the Jughead Lesbian Style Debacle of 2018.”

Find out what the entire Autostraddle Team wants for the holigays, and nab a couple of sweet gift ideas for you and your loved ones while you’re at it!

Porn alternatives, how to actually exercise your kegels, a lesbian adult coloring book, butts, pervertables, ways to describe orgasms and more.

The only good reason to move in together, vibrators are cool now, flirting with plausible deniability, a new way to learn about sexual pleasure and more.

Queer feelings, being a rope bottom/being a translator, cheap dates that don’t feel cheap, multiple orgasms and more.

It’s cold(ish) outside; warm up with this selection of queer erotica.

“Something about our conversations just makes me want to take off my underwear. And by ‘something’ I mean ‘everything.'”

In this NSFW Sunday: the New York Library’s extensive erotica collection, poly OkCupid updates, a vibrator that syncs with your smut and more.

“One way we can change the narratives around our sexuality and our erotic bodies is by taking up space as sexual beings and celebrating other women and femmes doing the same.” This zine is on it.

Broadcasting live this week from the Upside Down, it’s your best and brightest comments!

This week we’ve got gay agendas, arson of the heart/other places and so much more!

We spent some time making vision boards for 2017 because we needed the therapy. And the hope.

How to put toys in your butt, a map of feminist sex shops, UK porn censorship, keeping your sex toys warm when it’s cold and more.

In my opinion, a good Tinder profile is more important than good hygiene.