I finally realized that it is completely possible to be asexual, experience some sexual attraction and enjoy sex — even if you’re only having sex with yourself.

You can’t be gay in 1999. But I’m not, so that’s just fine.

Is reading nonfiction case histories of women who love too much really what I want to do with my one wild and precious life?

A new a first-generation Muslim-American character on grown-ish, Emma Corrin on their sexual and gender fluidity, and Jasmin Savoy’s very gay new music video!

Topics include Child Protective Services, wrongful convictions, abortion, OXO kitchen products, safety town, getitng cancelled in high school, Joel Kim Booster, MTV Books and more!

Tanaïs’ In Sensorium is an aesthetic, intimate labyrinth of ancestral reckoning and identity.

Sports! They make us gay, and we can’t get enough of reading about them!

It’s not just that Angeria and Willow are good — they’re also in sync with one another.

All Villanelle wants from Eve is a little emotional processing, but Eve won’t do it!

“When I was writing these women and their mothers, I wanted to show that these are individuals.”

Plus the Sci-Fi/Fantasy better halves you’re sending to the Autostraddle Sweet 16!

One TV Team member called this region “mean.” Another called it a “hate crime.”

“Now I’m very excited for another Autostraddle article in another 11 years adding even more editorial inserts to Kayla’s current editorial inserts.”

Topics include TED Talks, murder, Morrissey, a horrific party limousine crash, infertility, the Atlanta Spa Shootings, Super Bowl Halftime Shows, a legendary Massachusetts roadside restaurant and more.

Astrid & Lilly Save the World is a fun, silly sci-fi show with two fat female heroes, one of which is queer and crushing.

What do you want from me. The Real L Word. 108. It happened. Deal with it OMGFASHIONWEEEK FASHIONWEEK.

GUESS WHO ELSE IS HAVING A BABY!?!? DA BRAT AND HER GIRLFRIEND ARE HAVNG A BABY!!

A fun lil read on how scammers became cultural icons, a celebration of Tatyana Ali’s ‘90s fashion, an ode to plant parents, and who’s all gay at the winter olympics.

What Elmo’s viral moments tells us about how parents watch kids TV, and Linktree is kicking sex workers off its site.

Elise Bauman and Tattiawna Jones are charming as heck in this very sweet, very low stakes romantic comedy that takes place in a town that might as well be the North Pole.