tv reviews Sara Ramirez’s Kat Sandoval Debuts Even Gayer Than Imagined On “Madam Secretary” The pocket chain was just the beginning. Carmen Phillips — Nov 20, 2017
af+ A+ Roundtable: The First Time We Kissed A Girl “There were all these fairy lights and we drank and were drunk and everything felt warm and easy.” the team — Nov 20, 2017
christmas Autostraddle’s Ultimate Team Holigay Gift Guide 2017: Everything We Want Besides World Peace and Impeachment Find out what the entire Autostraddle Team wants for the holigays, and nab a couple of sweet gift ideas for you and your loved ones while you’re at it! the team — Nov 20, 2017
gender Trans Day of Remembrance Roundtable: What Chosen Family Means To Us “When I think about Trans Day of Remembrance and how I’ve survived to see another one, I know that it’s because of my family.” Mey — Nov 20, 2017
first person I Met My Sperm Donor’s Mom and It Changed Everything As the daughter of lesbian mothers, I always knew I had a sperm donor, and that I could meet him when I was 18. I loved my moms; I loved… Sydney — Nov 20, 2017
tv show recaps Boob(s On Your) Tube: Arizona Robbins and Annalise Keating Suffer Through Their Midseason Finales Plus some thoughts on this season of Queen Sugar! Heather Hogan — Nov 19, 2017
nsfw sunday NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is A Person, Not A Phone Relationship autopilot does not exist, correcting bad texting, how to date someone with anxiety, the perks of sex in late-stage capitalism and more. Ryan — Nov 19, 2017
love + sex Y’All Need Help #14: Yes or No Edition! Answers to all the yes/no questions you sent in since last Tuesday! Laneia — Nov 18, 2017
community The Most Wonderful Time Of Year: Holigay Meet-Up Season! It’s the most wonderful time of year so let’s spend it with our chosen family! Vanessa — Nov 17, 2017
first person The Mammalian Dive Reflex I changed. But it was a gradual process, in the way a forest becomes stone. Petrified forest of a body. S. Désirée Tiamat Cha — Nov 17, 2017
food and drink Let’s Decant With This Decanter, It’ll Be So Fancy How to clean your decanter. Why you might use a decanter. Which decanters you should expressly not use. A.E. Osworth — Nov 16, 2017
queer fashion PHOTO GALLERY: Here Are Your Toasty, Tasty Fall Fashion Looks! ‘Tis the season to get cute and cozy. Nora — Nov 16, 2017