friendship What’s a Normal Human Behavior That Gives You the Ick? Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and the team Jun 28, 2025
dating 12 Queers on Where We Fall on the Polyamory/Monogamy Scale Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and the team May 10, 2025
friendship What’s a Normal Human Behavior That Gives You the Ick? Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and the team Jun 28, 2025
dating 12 Queers on Where We Fall on the Polyamory/Monogamy Scale Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and the team May 10, 2025
af+ I Don’t Think I’m Hot Enough Anymore To Date on the Apps You’re newly single and worried your face card has expired on these dating apps. Also, we help a reader not text their ex! the team — Jan 24, 2025
af+ My High School Bully Is Happier Than Me She bullied you for being gay, now she’s the one living a perfect queer life!?? Also, what to do about mismatched communication needs in a relationship? the team — Jan 17, 2025
af+ I Love Living Alone, But My Girlfriend’s Ready to U-Haul You’re not sure you’re ready to live with your girlfriend yet! Also, a reader is hurt by a friend’s rejection of her mother. the team — Jan 10, 2025
af+ Neither Of Us Know How To Make the First Move Sober. Will We Ever Have Sex Again? Now that you’re sober, you’ve forgotten how to successfully initiate sex! Also, a reader’s partner has checked out post-election. the team — Jan 3, 2025
af+ Am I a Self-Hating Lesbian for Crushing on a Straight Woman? A grown-ass lesbian is finally and fully crushing on a straight woman — now what?? Also, let’s all get back into reading! the team — Dec 27, 2024
af+ Should I Get Married Before Trump Takes Office? An international couple ponders a visa marriage before Trump takes office. Also a reader wonders if dietary restrictions can be a dealbreaker. the team — Dec 20, 2024
af+ My Straight Friend Wants Gay Attention She’s straight but acts pretty gay at the parties! Is it allyship, or something else? Also, a reader requests some tittyfucking specifics please. the team — Dec 13, 2024
af+ Should I Hold Space For My Ex-Friend Detailing All The Times I Hurt Them What do you owe someone during a friend breakup? Also, a reader wonders about the right time to ask if someone’s interested in dating them. the team — Dec 6, 2024
holigays Autostraddle + For Them’s Ultimate Team Holigay Gift Guide 2024 Get in here and see what all the gays at For Them and Autostraddle want this holiday season! the team — Dec 2, 2024
af+ My Girlfriend Thinks Bad Service Deserves a Bad Tip, I Disagree Your server was really bad, but is it ever ok to leave a bad tip? Also, should you give unsolicited relationship advice to a friend? the team — Nov 29, 2024
af+ I’m Inexperienced and Panicked That I’ll Be Bad at Sex How to navigate dating apps when you have very limited sexual experience?! Also, a reader feels isolated after experiencing profound family loss. the team — Nov 22, 2024
house & garden What’s Your Favorite + Least Favorite Household Chore? Turns out a lot of us hate folding laundry. the team — Nov 22, 2024
