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Is There a Chill Way To Tell Your Girlfriend They Smell Bad?

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Hold Up, Can My Friend Date My Ex?

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The Horrors Persist, but So Does Queer Community

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Please Stop Telling My Older Girlfriend Not to Date Me

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Our Best Memories With Our Worst Exes

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• Dating

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• Relationships

Capitalism Is a B*tch, but I Can’t Help My Friends Anymore

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Literally Dreaming About Sex With My Ex

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HELP! I’m Trapped in a Fartless Relationship!

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My Girlfriend Hates That My Family Is White, But I Can’t Fix That

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I’m Afraid I Missed the Best Years of My Life

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My Kink Is Humiliation, But I’m Too Ashamed to Try It

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How Should We Deal with My Fiancé’s Trumpy Dad on Our Wedding Day?

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Can We Make Sure This New Baby Doesn’t Torpedo Our Friendships?

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Newly Sober Girlfriend Is Harshing My Mellow

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My Girlfriend Has Money to Spare, So Can I Ask for a Loan?

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Why Am I the Only Friend Not Invited to the Wedding?

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Will She Dump Me If I Don’t Wanna Join Her Wellness Journey?

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Why Won’t My Gay Coworker Hang Out With Me and My Gay Friends?

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I Don’t Think I’m Hot Enough Anymore To Date on the Apps

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My High School Bully Is Happier Than Me

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I Love Living Alone, But My Girlfriend’s Ready to U-Haul

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Neither Of Us Know How To Make the First Move Sober. Will We Ever Have Sex Again?

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Am I a Self-Hating Lesbian for Crushing on a Straight Woman?

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Should I Get Married Before Trump Takes Office?

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My Straight Friend Wants Gay Attention

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Should I Hold Space For My Ex-Friend Detailing All The Times I Hurt Them

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My Girlfriend Thinks Bad Service Deserves a Bad Tip, I Disagree

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I’m Inexperienced and Panicked That I’ll Be Bad at Sex

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What’s Your Favorite + Least Favorite Household Chore?

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Should I Dump My Trump-Loving Girlfriend?

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How Can I Convince My Girlfriend To Accept Her Shot at Financial Freedom?

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The Recurring Dreams and Nightmares That Haunt Us

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My Ex Would Rather I Rearrange My Entire Life Than Be Friends

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Can I Ask My Non-Binary Partner to Pretend To Be a Cis Man For My Sister’s Wedding?

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11 Queer People Share How They Flirt

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I Feel Like I’m Waiting For My Ex To Want to Get Back Together

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She’s a 10 But She Doesn’t Read Books

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I Trusted My Friend With My Cat. Then She Stole My Candle.

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My Family Is Freaking Out That We Took Our Daughter To a Drag Brunch

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Is It Fair For Our Newly Sober Friend To Make Our Group Hangs Sober Too?

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I Don’t Wanna Promote My Friend’s Bad Art

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Why Can’t I Share a King Bed With My Ex?

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Can I Lie To My Mom About My Girlfriend’s Age?

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I’m Monogamous, They’re Polyamorous, Can We Make It Work?

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I Want My Girlfriend To Quit Acting and Get a Job

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I Thought The Breakup Would Make Me Feel Better — But I’ve Never Felt Worse

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