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a Black woman wearing a red and black flannel sits next to a white woman in a pink and white checkered buttondown on a dock on the water, both looking contemplative.

You Need Help: My Girlfriend Doesn’t Want To Have Sex

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You Need Help: How Can I Help With Someone Else’s Fear of Dating?

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You Need Help: My Girlfriend Struggles With Social Skills

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You Need Help: How Do I Overcome the Feeling I’ll Never Find Someone After a Breakup?

two Black women sit on a couch, and one kisses the other's forehead in a tender moment

You Need Help: My Partner and I Aren’t Having Sex — How Can I Still Foster Intimacy?

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You Need Help: Am I Her Best Friend or Am I Being Emotionally Manipulated?

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You Need Help: I Feel Disconnected From Gender As a Concept

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You Need Help: I’m Afraid of Feeling Like Less of a Trans Man for Not Dating Men

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You Need Help: When Is the Right Time To Talk About Being Exclusive in a Relationship?

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You Need Help: I Miss the Social Intimacy of Church

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You Need Help: How Do I Navigate Misgendering as a Nonbinary Femme?

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You Need Help: Should I Go No Contact With My Ex?

a young East Asian woman with bangs has her face shrouded in shadow

You Need Help: Am I Being Unreasonable for Feeling Undesired by My Girlfriend?

an androgynous person in overalls and tattoos looks sad, sitting next to a femme person with a black top and ripped jeans

You Need Help: My Sister Loves Me, the Sinner, but Hates the Sin

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You Need Help: How Can I Make Long Distance More Bearable?

a queer white woman looking pensively into the distance. she has long blonde hair with a grown-out undercut on the sides. a brunette woman with a widow's peak is hugging her from behind.

You Need Help: How Do I Convince My Girlfriend That I Care?

two women hold a swaddled baby

You Need Help: I’m Uncertain About Wanting Kids, So Should I Only Date People Who Are Uncertain Too?

two women look sad while flanking another sad woman and trying to comfort her in bed

You Need Help: How Can I Plan for a Bad Breakup?

a woman is sitting on the couch reading a book, and she pops her head above the pages to make a truly shocked face: eyes wide, eyebrows raised, mouth open! she's surprised!

You Need Help: Should I Ask My Friend on a Date Even if I Think She’ll Say No?

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You Need Help: Should I Invite My Friends’ Whole Polycule to My Wedding?

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