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You Need Help: How Can I Help With Someone Else’s Fear of Dating?

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You Need Help: My Girlfriend Struggles With Social Skills

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You Need Help: How Do I Overcome the Feeling I’ll Never Find Someone After a Breakup?

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You Need Help: My Partner and I Aren’t Having Sex — How Can I Still Foster Intimacy?

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You Need Help: Am I Her Best Friend or Am I Being Emotionally Manipulated?

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You Need Help: I Feel Disconnected From Gender As a Concept

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You Need Help: I’m Afraid of Feeling Like Less of a Trans Man for Not Dating Men

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You Need Help: When Is the Right Time To Talk About Being Exclusive in a Relationship?

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You Need Help: I Miss the Social Intimacy of Church

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You Need Help: How Do I Navigate Misgendering as a Nonbinary Femme?

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You Need Help: Should I Go No Contact With My Ex?

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You Need Help: Am I Being Unreasonable for Feeling Undesired by My Girlfriend?

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You Need Help: My Sister Loves Me, the Sinner, but Hates the Sin

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You Need Help: How Can I Make Long Distance More Bearable?

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You Need Help: How Do I Convince My Girlfriend That I Care?

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You Need Help: I’m Uncertain About Wanting Kids, So Should I Only Date People Who Are Uncertain Too?

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You Need Help: How Can I Plan for a Bad Breakup?

a woman is sitting on the couch reading a book, and she pops her head above the pages to make a truly shocked face: eyes wide, eyebrows raised, mouth open! she's surprised!

You Need Help: Should I Ask My Friend on a Date Even if I Think She’ll Say No?

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You Need Help: Should I Invite My Friends’ Whole Polycule to My Wedding?

Two women are having an argument. One looks like she is trying to talk, while the other turns away and puts her hand up, signaling her to stop and that she doesn't want to listen.

You Need Help: Your Friend Takes Everything Super Personally

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