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What This Trans Survivor Wants J.K. Rowling to Know

Joanne Rowling and I might have more in common than she thinks.

By xoai pham| September 24, 2020 | 20 Comments
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Straight People Watch: Quarantine Edition

Nature is healing.

By Erin| April 24, 2020 | 49 Comments
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Straight People Watch: Spring 2K19

Does anyone know what’s happening.

By Erin| July 12, 2019 | 72 Comments
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Straight People Watch: Winter 2019

“Something I’m curious about is if straight coupling has always stood on a foundation of contempt. “

By Erin| February 21, 2019 | 79 Comments
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Straight People Watch: Holiday Edition

“To everyone’s credit, something they never tell you about as a child is the metaphorical cowboy snowman ready to do the devil’s bidding in a marriage, so who, really, is to blame here?”

By Erin| December 21, 2018 | 65 Comments
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Straight People Watch: Summer 2018

It’s dark in here and I’m scared!

By Erin| August 15, 2018 | 123 Comments
Society + Culture

What’s the Lesbian Equivalent of “He’s Tall”?

It’s been established that Straight Women Are Not Okay, and this is just another drop in the ocean.

By Erin| July 24, 2018 | 197 Comments
Sex + Relationships

Some Millennial Women Giving Up On Men, Dating Women Exclusively Because We Are Supreme Beings

It’s time for another round of “there’s never been a better time to date a woman”!

By Riese| May 30, 2018 | 37 Comments
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Straight People Watch: Spring 2K18

As always: is anyone okay?

By Erin| May 2, 2018 | 124 Comments
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Straight People Watch: Winter 2K18

The holidays have come and gone, but straight people? Oh, they’re still here. More than ever.

By Erin| February 2, 2018 | 92 Comments
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Straight People Watch: Fall 2K17

Guess who are still not okay?

By Erin| November 28, 2017 | 68 Comments
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Is There Something Queer About Being Single? (Narrator: There Is Not.)

This week’s Modern Love columnist wanted to know if “there’s something queer about being single.” Apparently, the “no”s were so loud, they changed the headline.

By Stef| October 27, 2017 | 73 Comments
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Straight People Watch: Summer 2K17

Heterosexual tomfoolery round up!

By Erin| September 11, 2017 | 122 Comments
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It Appears That Straight Women Are Not Okay

We asked and they answered.

By Erin| June 8, 2017 | 100 Comments
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Are Straight Women Okay?

I’m worried about straight women a little bit.

By Erin| March 23, 2017 | 184 Comments

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