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When was the last time a motion picture centered itself on the premise that a teenage, mixed race, black lesbian is worthy of support and love from everyone surrounding her? It’s simple and tender and because of those things it’s groundbreaking.

“also can you truly — in your true heart — think of a better headline than “i put a sheet mask on my cunt””

Which of five wonderful rosés would be best for “listening to D-I-V-O-R-C-E by Tammy Wynette and feeling accomplished”? The answer to this question and so many more lie within this post.

Station 19 is gay out of the gate, Star buries a gay in a completely heartbreaking way, Legends of Tomorrow unleashes an army of Avas, Nyssa is back(!) on Arrow, and Once Upon a Time is going out with a lesbian bang!

Lesbian archives, advocacy, prom, and of course, even more Janelle Monae news.

I was a newly minted queer and everything I knew about queerness was rooted in coming out. I’d heard about the relief that came with coming out from everybody. If TV was to be believed, I would feel free even as my parents stopped looking me in the eye.

Waverly meets Mama, Jeremy meets a potential new beau, and we meet Zoie Palmer’s character.

What types of relationship situations or people are you often drawn to even though you know they’re bad for you and will destroy you?

Plus updates on General Hospital, The Young & the Restless, Critical Role, Mi Familia Perfecta, and Claws!

Welcome to A+ Sex Diaries, an A+ feature in which we publish seven days in our sex lives. This week: a mid-twenties femme juggling multiple long-distance relationships hooks up with her ex.

“Sally? Sally, are you here? Are you selling those shirts?”

In a couple of weeks I’m hosting my very first queer Seder. Let’s talk about how we celebrate Passover!

Also: God Friended Me is heckin’ gay, HTGAWM celebrates Spirit Day with purple and more hints of an Annalise/Tegan hook-up, Bre-Z is so good on All American, and just a little misandry on The Purge.

“My armor was a smile, Santana’s was an insult. And bless her for it.”

Three brides who opted for suits explain how their choice of attire ensured that their wedding was the best day of their lives.

I wasn’t at all ready for the feelings I’d have about being adopted and queer and raising a toddler who still isn’t as old as I was when I came to the United States on an airplane.

“It’s common to want to tell everyone about your newfound realization about your identity, so that you can feel like you’re living authentically and with integrity. But you get to do whatever feels best to you!”

It’s gonna be cool for the summer with all these TV shows featuring lesbian, bisexual and queer female characters.

“Sipping coffee in their sunny drenched kitchen was the first time I really saw myself. I could imagine it. I could see how I could be gay and still… be me.”