Unfortunately, most parenting books weren’t written with queer moms, trans dads, non-binary parents and gestational carriers, and families that look like ours in mind.

Hunter Harris in GQ, Javicia Leslie in the Los Angeles Times, Lily Singh in the New York Times, and more!

Vermont has the weed, you have Hayley Kiyoko, Instagram, #MeToo, Rosie the Riveter, Ruth Bader Ginsburg, queer pop’s last taboo, and so much more!

I want Remi to be able to write and narrate her own life. I owe her that as someone who had to reclaim my story.

As we head into the crisp, fresh beginning of 2020 and a new decade, we want to hear about your queerest, wildest dreams for the future. Deadline for submissions is January 31!

“And then she told us there was another child — a baby — at a nearby hospital. Were we interested? We said yes even though we had a thousand questions and just as many concerns (why was he in the hospital? Where were his birth parents? Who was holding him when he cried?). That baby turned out to be our son.”

I wouldn’t say I’ve escaped the Cult of Mommy completely. I’ve defined it for myself.

Parenting during the pandemic is a wild ride, so consider this our queer parenting circle, a safe place to share the good and the bad!

“Before becoming a parent, I looked at parenting through rose-colored glasses — with an able-bodied person’s perspective. It was drilled into my head by other people, well-meaning as they were, that I probably shouldn’t have children.”

“Do you feel like we’re drifting apart?” I asked.

Everything my toddler taught me about prioritizing play.

I was proudly pro-abortion before I was a mom. I’ve doubled down on that belief after becoming one.

Remi saved the holidays!

There are no right or wrong answers in queer and trans parenting choices, just the decisions we make.

“Tag yourself — I’m ‘not sure who is supposed to make the first move.'”

Why are there so many TV shows about high school kids who don’t act like high school kids at all?

I didn’t understand unconditional love until I met Remi.

“You have to wear pants to go outside.”

“What I’m saying is, if you’re sitting in the legislative chamber trying to hear the floor debate and someone’s kid starts crying or yelling “Baby Shark!” please be kind to them.”

“I want to read stories about dykes not acting right. I want to read about people being messy. So I want to write about that too.”