A lesbian struggles with her trans boyfriend’s growing disconnection from queer community and identification. Also, we have another classic quandry: Two Bottoms, One Relationship.
The musician opens up about coming out as non-binary, getting dropped by their record label, the life-changing DM they received from Brandi Carlile, and the complex lives of trans Texans.
Topics include the middle being gone from everything, Heated Rivalry / Fujoshi Studies, kinda dating Matthew Perry, nestalgia, iPods, reading about mothering, Gisèle Pelicot, the war in Iran and more.
“I think defining sexuality is necessary for some people. For me, I’ve always been a person that loves a vibe, loves a personality. I’m attracted to a personality rather than…
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