Double the Musical Pleasure: Crystal-on-Emma Dean & Stef-on-“Sick of Sarah”

2. Stef-on-Sick of Sarah

Stef interviews Sick of Sarah about the Minneapolis scene, blogging, the Spice Girls, listening to the same CD over and over again and … um … vagina!

I meet up with the Minneapolis-based, all-female, openly-gay quintet Sick of Sarah in the lobby area of an insanely fancy hotel. The waitstaff eye us warily because we bleary-eyed, hair-dyed, tattooed and pierced weirdos are loud, boisterous and having inappropriate amounts of fun.  Sick of Sarah were friendly, and ultimately we don’t order anything that didn’t have a price listed.

Originally called Sparkle Motion (??!!??!), SOS writes hook-y, emotion-driven pop-rock songs to listen to alone in your room and their newest EP, The Best Thing, came out last week. Here’s our conversation:

Waiter:  I’m sorry, um,  just because of the health code, you can’t have your feet on the table. Would you like to order something?

Stef: (loud whisper) THIS PLACE IS AWESOME. So!  How are you?

Katie: Good!

Jessie: Awesome.

Stef: Fantastic.  So I’ve done a little research on you guys, so if I ask you questions you’ve been asked already, I’m really sorry..

Jessie: It’s alright.

Katie: We’ll get over it.sospromo

Stef:  My first question is the band name … (band groans audibly) … I’m sure you get it all the time.

Abisha:  No, it’s cool. Um, it was my old roommate, she said she was sick of her name one day – she was sick of Sarah, and we were in the process of looking for a new name so… y’know. It sounded good at a time.  It was Brooke’s ex girlfriend at the time –

Brooke: Incidentally.

Katie: …Who we still like!  Nothin’ to do with the breakup!

Stef: How does she feel about you?  Is she sick of you?

Katie: Is Sarah sick of us?  She texted me yesterday.  Everything’s fine.  Our relationship is totally good.  I’m not concerned.

Stef: I saw your new video for “Bittersweet,” which is obviously you guys walking around Minneapolis, where you’re from. What’s the music scene like there?

Jessie: It’s kinda big, we’ve got a pretty rockin’ scene.  There’s a lot of indie, and there’s a pretty big hip hop scene too.

Stef: You guys hang out with Prince all the time?

Brooke: Yeah, every day.  He comes to our pool parties.

Stef: When Prince shows up somewhere, is it like, some kind of mythic proportion…

Jessie: He doesn’t really show up anywhere actually.. He lives in the suburbs.  He just kinda stays..

Brooke: I heard he moved actually.

Jessie: I don’t know, I lost his phone number.

Katie: It’s ok, I’ll just Twitter him later on.

Stef: Was there a specific inspiration behind the video?

Abisha: Basically we wanted to capture the vibe of the song, the emotion… and it’s cold in Minneapolis – we definitely wanna represent our hometown!  I guess I didn’t grow up there but… Um, we captured a bunch of monumental spots in Minneapolis, like  there’s a part in the video where I’m walking past a wall with stars on it?  That’s First Ave, a legendary venue… And also the Walker Arts Center, there’s a bridge that goes over the highway.  That’s kind of a big deal also.  I don’t know, we just tried to capture Minneapolis and the vibe of the song, which is bittersweet – sad and.. cold and.. grr.

Abisha: We have very uh, eclectic musical taste… Guilty pleasures, but they shall remain nameless.

Katie: Like, it’s fun to rock out, but it sucks to be in the snow.

Stef: Y-… You were in actual snow?!

Katie: Oh yeah, it was like 25 degrees.. It got pretty insane.

Jessie: I was sober.

Katie: I am SORRY.

Jessie: Well, somebody had to drive!

Stef: You guys have done a couple of blogs – I know you (Jessie) in particular have blogged about discrimination, sexism you’ve encountered on the road, but now you’re on an all-female tour.

Jessie: It’s way different.  We’ve toured with bands that we like, but it’s different touring with an all-girl band because you can kinda like… gang up on whoever is being a dick, you know?  It’s cool – it’s a totally different vibe!  It’s like, “GIRL POWER, WOOO!”

Stef: So you guys have Spice Girls parties…

Brooke:  Yeah, we sing Spice Girls a little bit…

Abisha: The only thing that kind of sucks is when we got Jamie, we couldn’t be the real Spice Girls ’cause there’s five of us and they only have four.. She’s the bonus Spice, she’s Bonus Jonas Spice.

sickofsarahStef: Oh, for the reunion tour they got everybody back together!  There was five of them!  So um, what do you guys do on the road to stay sane?

All: We don’t.

Jessie: We just laugh a lot and say stupid stuff.

Katie:  We repeat the same joke over and over, which in turn surprisingly makes it more funny.. the 400th time.. You just go.  You ride, you go, you drive, you get to the venue –

Jessie:  – You listen to the same CD over and over.  You have a dance party.

Stef: Do you guys fight?

Abisha: If we ever feel like, a little bit tense, we just hug it out.

Jessie: We don’t fight a lot, but we have differences of opinions, and usually when that happens we just part ways, have a smoke, and fall back in love!

Katie: This tour’s been pretty good though, knock on wood.  This has been one of our longer runs as of yet, but we have yet to have a full-out brawl, which is good.  We’re havin’ an awesome time.

Stef: Is there anything people would be surprised that you guys listen to?

Katie: Probably everything we listen to would be a surprise.

Abisha: We have very uh, eclectic musical taste.. Guilty pleasures, but they shall remain nameless.


Abisha: Jessie has a very soft, delicate side of her and it comes out in some of her CDs that she listens to.

Jessie: I make road mixes and I name them things like ‘Hmm’ and ‘Snap City!’  But y’know, there might be a ballad or two on there.

Kate: There might be a little Olivia Newton-John… OK, me and Jessie really like Cher.  Just puttin’ it out there.

Abisha: I’m into this Rihanna song right now.  “DISTURBIA!”

Stef: Are you familiar with “Breakin’ Dishes”?

All: No.

Stef:  Well I bought the record… “Umbrella” is such a good song!  And there’s this song called “Breakin’ Dishes,” where she’s setting all her boyfriend’s shit on fire cos he’s out cheating on her!  It’s amazing.

Katie: Note to self.

Stef:  My last question for you guys is kinda totally ridiculous. I would like to know your favourite euphemism for vagina, and then we’re done.

All: Wait, what?

Katie: Oh, I shouldn’t have this down on paper.

Jessie: Um, my little sister?

Abisha: Dude, that’s fucked up.

Katie: Um, so you want completely inappropriate?

Jessie: Judy!

Jamie: That’s mighty clean of you.

Jessie: Well I said my little sister and you guys were all OH MY GOD

Katie: Well also um, who calls it that?

Abisha: I think “vajayjay” is pretty sweet, but then there was a girl at McDonald’s whose name was Vajayjay and she didn’t get my order right.

Brooke: It’s a toss-up – there’s like 20 of them that i really enjoy so..

Katie: PICK ONE.  (someone yells “CLAM!”)  When we went to LA we made a list of like 200 of ’em.

Stef: I’m lucky i stumbled upon this question!

(The girls continue to talk excitedly while Jamie shifts silently on the couch.  I point this out.)

Katie: Well, I call mine Jamie.


After the interview, one of the girls (who shall remain nameless) told me that she prefers “DNA Dumpster,” but didn’t want it on the record.  Just sayin’.

Sick of Sarah are currently on tour with Von Iva, and their self-titled album is out now on Adamant Records.

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  1. I loved the Bittersweet video precisely because it represented Minneapolis so well. Sick of Sarah has several videos posted on youtube of the “making of” that video and they are pretty hilarious. Oh…and those videos will frighten anyone who even THINKS of coming to Minneapolis in the winter.

    “Abisha: I think “vajayjay” is pretty sweet, but then there was a girl at McDonald’s whose name was Vajayjay and she didn’t get my order right.” – I still can’t stop laughing about this.

  2. I’ve never heard of Emma Dean before, she’s really good! Great interviews girls.

  3. I heart my SoS girls. :-D

    And I would really like to meet somebody named VaJaJay…. fo reals.

    Nice job, ladies.

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