Cubbyhole, where everyone knows your name. (Featuring our “first gay bar ever” stories)
“I’m rather tired of people reacting with shock when they find out I dress the way I do and identify as a bottom.”
~6-7 of you think you know a thing or two about lesbian sex, the rest of you probably do too, everyone should read this
Before sex, during sex and after sex. Sex, sex, sexy sex.
Will your girl eventually want another girl? Is your long-term relationship robbing her of sexual growth and personal development? This is a good opportunity to talk about yourself under the guise of helping someone else.
So let’s say all your friends are straight and they’re totally okay with you being gay but also sometimes say the most irritating things ever? A conversation on how/when to deal.
The eyes are all asking are you in, or are you out?
I emerged from the winter of my dating discontent with a few good rules, which are probably more like guidelines since I’m genetically incapable of following rules. So here they are…in all their fucked up glory. My four new rules for dating.
Like match.com for sharks
In which we discuss how not to upset your herbivorous ladyfriend.
So, casual dating is dead, and I’m on a mission to bring it back with this handy guide to classifying what the hell is going on with you and that girl.
“The world is supposed to feel as though it is ending and you are supposed to know only in the most dormant recesses of the backmost corner of your soul that it will not be like this forever.”
In which we discuss the most common misconceptions about polyamory and nonmonogamy in an attempt to help everyone be less stupid.
Tips for introducing that girl you’ve been dating to your uber-hetero friends. Plus how to throw a gin bucket party! So much relevancy to so many of your interests.
“So let’s say you are a non-trans person and you are with someone who is out about being trans and is knowingly open to questions. You have some things you want to ask. Here are some guidelines to follow.”
“Kirk Cameron does not star in this movie. No halo of God’s approval is going to appear behind your head when you tell your parents you’re gay. This is not Touched By An Angel.”
Dad: Let’s light the candles.
Me: Let’s light your face.
Get your face out of that turkey’s a** and pay attention to your girlfriend.
Canadian Thanksgiving happened on October 11, which means that Carolyn and all the other Canadians have already experienced the joys of family togetherness. Lucky for you, she documented the whole thing. Recipes included!
The definitive answer so we never have to answer again: how the hell do you meet other girls who like girls? BRING OUT YER LESBIANS.
Is it possible to be a radical queer feminist and still overhear conversations, maintain friendships and interact in public with unradical non-queers, without screaming at everyone or compromising your identity? A case study.