In our last post dedicated to our tops / bottoms / switches survey, we’re looking at a broad overview of all the data.

“Occasionally I wake up looking like a teen heartthrob on the cover of Tiger Beat circa 1997, like a Home Improvement-era Jonathan Taylor Thomas”

Today we’re using our sex survey data to talk about switches and also about those of you who identified as NONE OF THE ABOVE. Which is fine!

It’s time for part two of our series on what queer women and trans people are talking about when they talk about tops, bottoms and switches. Today we are taking your love ON TOP.

“I’ve been dying to tell someone about how my partner and I finally found a name for our new dildo and it’s Antoni”

And so we talked all night about the rest of our lives…

“All horror is queer culture, as is Halloween as you correctly stated, and the 1970s in general, AND all final girls are queer culture in a very specific way that can only be discussed when you’re extremely high during a full moon.”

“I was intrigued when I saw the phrase ‘DM Culture,’ until I realized they didn’t mean Dungeon Master.”

Are you more Annie Clark or Lena Waithe? Petite or extra tall? An online shopper or strictly IRL? We’re planning a thing possibly maybe and need your help!

Love and sex and internalized homophobia and, yes, straight girls.

Can we please get a “sustainability dyke” pin? I would love that so much.

It’s fun to delete stuff. Plus: feminist zine culture, a Lumberjanes quiz, the 2017 VIDA count results and more.

Here’s how we handle TV that lets us down, the shows we think successfully turned it around, and our ultimate dealbreakers.

“One of the criticisms regularly lobbed against dental dams is the product’s perceived lack of sexiness, that stopping to grab one could kill the mood. Melanie Cristol was fed up. An accomplished consumer product and healthcare attorney at an international law firm based in Los Angeles, there wasn’t anything in her life that hinted she would be the reason for the next evolution in dental dams: Lorals.”

Topics include Goop, Sex and the City, Les Moonves, a waterslide tragedy, IRL livestreaming, lesbian cruising, Six Feet Under, Benihana, rough sex and more!

Once upon a time you told us a bunch of stuff about yourself and now I’m gonna tell you what you told me, but with pictures!

Ten thousand reader votes later…

“always happy for the opportunity to turn our community’s collective missteps into content”

“You know how to make a point like no other laneia, and it is literally a joy every time”

We’re closing out LGBT History Month with Jeanne Córdova — a legendary publisher and activist who died last year and included Autostraddle as one of many beneficiaries of her estate, which is why we didn’t lose our minds this year.