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sex

Queer Audio Erotica Changed My Life, Helped Me Connect My Mind and Body

I was a late bloomer when it comes to all things sex and sexuality.

Em Win

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Sep 19, 2023

Queering the Midwest, surrounded by a bust on fire, three matches, and a dart

lgbt pride

Clare Forstie Wants To Change the Way You Think About the Queer Midwest

“I am a queer person who grew up in and has lived in small communities, small towns, and small cities for my entire life.”

Lauren Herold

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Jun 7, 2023

The silhouettes of two women are visible on a hill during sunset. They both have long, dark hair, wear backpacks and jeans, and hold metal cups in their hands. They sit on the ground and face each other. The woman on the left wears a red jacket and the woman on the right wears a blue jacket.

relationships

When One of Us Transitioned, Our Relationship Changed for the Better

By the time the lockdown lifted, she (Lucy) had kicked a life-long nail biting habit, and I (Summer) had come out as transgender.

Summer Tao and Lucy Aalto

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Feb 6, 2023

the Bug Bite Thing, a white plastic suction tool used for bug bites

shopping

This $10 Bug Bite Treatment Changed My Life, Helped Me Accept My Mosquito Overlords

I learned the hard way that I am The Person Mosquitos Are Obsessed With when I moved to Florida.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya

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May 9, 2023

A programmable coffeemaker connected to a Keurig sits on a counter next to a mushroom tapestry

shopping

This Coffeemaker Changed My Life, Makes Mornings With the Sleepyhead I Love Even Sweeter

I’m a morning person — my fiancé is NOT.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya

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Feb 11, 2023

An image of a lavender bra sitting on a wooden table. More bras in various colors are rolled up in a blue and white basket beside it.

queer fashion

This Wire-Free Bra for Larger Chests Changed My Life

It’s seamless under t-shirts, it stays compressive over the course of the day, and I can use it as an impromptu swim top or keep it on overnight when I’m…

Darcy

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Nov 16, 2022

A rainbow Bud Light neon sign that says BE YOURSELF

comedy

Bud Light Is the Dykiest Domestic Lager — Change My Mind

All other American-style light lagers taste bad (and therefore are straight).

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya

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Oct 27, 2022

a globe of the earth is set afire against a black backdrop in this featue image

af+

A+ Roundtable: Coping with Climate Change

“Corrupt politicians and leaders want to destroy our spirit. We can’t let them.”

the team

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Jul 8, 2022

A vintage illustration of a bird on a branch against a blue background

book lists

In Verse: Poetry Collections for a Big Life Change

I have never lived anywhere that wasn’t in Pennsylvania. This state is my home, but I’m ready to move on from it.

danijanae

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Aug 25, 2022

A side-by-side close up of a navy blue silk pillow case with a star pattern, laying on top of gold colored sheets

shopping

Silk Pillowcases Changed My Life, Made My Self-Made MILF Dreams Come True

If you, too, want MILFy vibes without having to have children, I highly, highly recommend a silk pillowcase!

ashni

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Jan 2, 2023

A table and Coca-Cola chairs sit on a floating chunk of ice in the ocean. The table is set with burgers, fries, napkins, and a flag.

first person

No Matter How Much Changes, These Diners Stay The Same

If Staten Island has anything, it’s an abundance of delicious diners, and so many have left their mark on my heart.

Sa'iyda Shabazz

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Aug 9, 2022

A collage of the queer characters from the television show P Valley in front of brightly colored club lights that are purple, pink, and gold. Left to right: Farrah, Uncle Clifford, Lil Murda, Teak, and Mercedes.

tv feature

P-Valley Has Changed the Rules of Black Queer Storytelling

A roundtable between four queer black writers about THEE show of the summer that united exceptional storytelling, with blackness and queerness and southernness, in ways we’ve never seen before.

Natalie, A. Tony Jerome, and Carmen Phillips

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Aug 19, 2022

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