“If I was too much for certain places, I was going to create a place where it was wonderful to be exactly me. And for you to be 100% you — weird, honest, joyful, strange, excited, vulnerable and real. All the time.”

Everybody’s going to jail!

I’m organizing a meet-up during this year’s NYFLC for the Autostraddle readers who are attending the conference!

“Just one week after perhaps the most powerful episode in the show’s history, Shonda Rhime’s force-of-nature hit show Scandal has once again destroyed our hearts. This week’s story touched the souls of audiences everywhere with two tales of love trying to rise above what seem like impossible situations.”

Lena and Stef keep secrets from each other, and it is not good. Worse, though, is Jude and/or Connor gets shot!

While Dr. Geena Davis is in surgery, Callie and Arizona realize they hardly even hate each other anymore.

Let’s build our own Fortresses of Solitude.

Bondage, butterflies, and zero men.

Stef and Lena agree to let Callie go, and Rosie’s got a brand new house.

Brittany and Santana say “I do.” (And Kurt and Blaine do too.)

Doulas aren’t just for rich white folks, Ruth Bader Ginsburg isn’t going anywhere, where are all the women hermits, even more on the Google View-Master because I’m obsessed, plus other cool neat rad stories you’ll appreciate on some level!

Emily meets her girlfriend’s husband, and Hanna dances like she’s possessed by the Holy Ghost.

Another Canadian actresses catches the girl-on-girl Valentine’s Day bug.

Audio porn, what you can learn from learning to have queer sex, communicating your sexual desires and more.

When you’re Staycationing, a cheese plate is a wonderful thing whether you’re hosting company or you plan to eat that entire board all by your fucking self (I support you in this).

AREN’T WE HILARIOUS??!!

The most important item on this list is #5.

Kristen Stewart, lumbersexiness, palazzo pants and moar!

How the Pathetic Lesbian trope managed to scare me straight while making me laugh.

Stef and Lena take down the pillow wall, get naked … and talk about their kids.