Playlist: Oh My Gosh Make Out With Me

To the Autostraddler who requested “a sexytime playlist that says ‘I listen to cool stuff that makes you want to kiss me'”, today is your very lucky day. Prepare to get your game on, friend.

This is for that cute girl at the coffeeshop who makes you forget your order, the redhead at the party who loves Kerouac, and your upstairs neighbor who has the most beautiful red lips in the whole wide world. Here is a mix that says “Hey! This super sexy music compels you to put your face on my face already!”

Oh My Gosh Make Out With Me


I Walk – Mister Lies
Crew Love (Drake ft. The Weeknd Cover) – Gemini
One Thing – Telephoned
Unbelieve – Fortune Howl
Coming Down (Sango Remix) – The Weeknd
Thinking About You (Bosstone Remix) – Frank Ocean
Born To Die (AlunaGeorge Remix) – Lana Del Rey

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  1. Pretty Little Heart – Lil’ Wayne & Robin Thicke

    (for that matter, lots of songs by Robin Thicke)

  2. TVOTR – Wolf Like Me
    Gary Clark Jr. – Bright Lights
    Chromeo – Night By Night
    jamie xx & Gil Scott-Heron – I’ll Take Care of U
    Nick Waterhouse – Indian Love Call
    The Ramones – Judy Is A Punk (mostly because of the Margot Tenenbaum Hookup Montage)
    anything by Françoise Hardy

  3. You forgot “Sex and Candy” by Marcy Playground…
    OR “MAKE IT WIT CHU” by Queens of the Stone Age

    • 1) I love you? Those two songs have like live wires to my horny-mones
      2) I love this playlist

  4. 1. love type thing- Tegan and Sara
    2. When it’s time- Green day
    3. By your side- Sade
    4. Give me love- Ed Sheeran
    5. This is everything- Tegan and Sara

    • the fact Ed Sheeran has made it into your list and presumably state side makes me happy.

      1. Just like Heaven – The Clash
      2. The End – Ellie Goulding
      3. Float On – Modest Mouse
      4. She – Ed Sheeran
      5. Perfect Stranger (feat Katy B.) – Magnetic Man
      6. Kickstarts – Example
      7. L.O.V.E – Jessie J
      8. Eileen – Dexy’s Midnight Runners

      every time someone only knows ‘Come on Eileen’ in the song, a kitten dies.

    • hhhnnnggggwell SKQ, seems we’re in for another month of me dreaming about being your new friend/true love/person having sex with you. you brought it on yourself.

    • Seriously. I suspect making this playlist was less about helping us get our game on and more about Kate making every Autostraddle lady want to make out with her.

      • oh my gosh laneia i sent you like 8 emails this morning
        which one was the cutest thing?!
        i’m blushing

  5. I’m pretty sure this playlist is how the first girl I fell in love with informed me that I was gay

  6. Like anything else, it depends on the mood and what you’re trying to “trigger” with said kiss…

    Vikter Duplaix – Electric Love (
    Vikter Duplaix – Stimulation (
    Vikter Duplaix – Make A Baby (
    Maxwell – This Woman’s Work
    Meshell Ndegocello – Trust (
    Neikka RPM – Seduction (
    Massive Attack – Black Milk (
    Hooverphonic – Renaissance Affair (
    Hooverphonic – Mad About You (
    Yimino – Auad (
    Arom – Air De Soie (
    Sade – Cherish The Day (
    Madredeus – O Paraiso (
    Da Lata – Cores (
    Cibelle – Deixa (
    Thievery Corporation – Omid (Hope) (
    Kaya Project – Drift (
    Françoise Hardy – Viens (

    Ok, I better stop, I could go on and on for all eternity.

  7. Made in 2011, but still relevant:

    1. The xx – Basic Space
    2. She Wants Revenge – Tear You Apart
    3. Lovage – Stroker Ace
    4. Coldplay – Yellow
    5. The Cure – Lovesong
    6. Corinne Bailey Rae – Like a Star
    7. Jem – Flying High
    8. Damien Rice – The Blower’s Daughter
    9. Radiohead – Nude
    10. Leona Lewis – Run (Snow Patrol cover)
    11. Feist – Honey Honey
    12. Massive Attack – Angel

    • Yes to all of this. Yes. Yes. Especially The xx song and the Leona Lewis cover of “Run.”

  8. Mirah’s, ‘summer booty pop song’, “self control”…. I wanna feel your body drop low on me.

  9. Crave you- flight facilities(adventure club remix) will put me in the mood, anytime, anywhere.

    • Oh fuck I am so with you on that one. That song DEFINES that achy lusty want it so bad but don’t know if I can use it I just want you to fucking look at me feeling.

  10. Wow, hey, this is relevant to my interests. I totally made out with my sorta boss last weekend. It was definitely the highlight of my year so far (I’m betting A-camp will maybe beat that or at least come up as equal.

    • or, for a less slowly-intensely-languidly-sexy and more heady-ecstatically-hastily-pulling-off-clothing kind of mood, Florence and the Machine’s ‘Strangeness and Charm’…

      Also please Florence, will you marry me?

      (Also also, does Florence trip anyone else’s gaydar besides mine?)

  11. My girlfriend put Bonobo on during our first date… it worked. (Especially Keeper feat Andreya Triana)

  12. Damn, all these Autostraddlers have really, really good taste in face-on-face sexy time music. I am in love with this playlist + all the songs listed in the comments.


    I thought my query on the tumblr had gotten lost in the intertubes forever.

    This playlist is everything and more. You skewed electronic without me even having to ask. This is absolutely tingly-feeling-inspiring. YOU DA BEST.

    I’m going to throw in Storms- Wolves and Bells (My Dry Wet Mess Remix ( and the Mr. Little Jeans cover of Arcade Fire’s The Suburbs (

  14. Clams Casino — I’m God

    also, for “holy crap I am so happy to be kissing you right now” moments: Gui Boratto — Beautiful Life

    Sailor and I — Tough Love (Aril Brikha remix)


  15. NEEDS MORE DUBSTEP. And also Garbage, like serz throw on Version 2.0 and we will have a TIME..

  16. rill rill- sleigh bells
    heartbeats- the knife
    change of heart- el perro del mar
    land of feelings- here we go magic
    keep your heart-tv on the radio

  17. I love sex. I love music. But strangely enough I like to have my sex, music free. At the same time music turns me on. Conflicting feelings.

    More to the point: Goldfrapp

  18. If I’m playing trip-hop/chillout music (massive attack, hooverphonic, thievery corp, goldfrapp, tricky, etc) mixed in with some r&b/neo-soul (jill scott – crown royal – OMG, maxwell, sade, janet jackson – anytime, anyplace – OMG, etc.) then you know what kind of night it’s going to be! :D

  19. OMG, THANK YOU. I really needed a new sexy times playlist and these post and comments are so useful. I am so getting laid. Well I usually am because married, but this time harder.

  20. I like a strange mix of music, so here’s a list that I think is the least strange:

    Angel – Massive Attack
    It Could Be Love – Camouflage Nights
    URA Fever – The Kills
    Against the Wall – Teschnik (this one is a little hard to find)
    Anyway You Choose To Give It – The Black Ghosts
    Between Two Points – Glitch Mob feat Swan
    Candy Girl – Quesh (actually more of a funny song lol)
    The Chauffer – Deftones (Duran Duran cover)
    FC Kahuna – Hayling
    Corrupt – Depeche Mode
    Dirge – Death in Vegas
    Telepathy – Crosses
    Everybody (Extended Mix) – Rudenko
    Firefly – Jucifer
    Get Some – Lykke Li
    I Want You – Martin 
    In For The Kill (Skream’s Let’s Get Dancy Mix) – La Roux
    The Keeper (Banks Remix) – Bonobo
    Licky (Work It Out) (Vandalism Remix) – Larry Tee
    Lucky You – Deftones
    Move For Me – Deadmau5
    Numbed In Moscow – Portishead
    Pussy Town – Machine Gun Fellatio (har har)
    Sirens – The Pack A.D
    Talk To Me – Porcelain Raft
    Wildfire – SBTRKT

    • yeah! i enjoy these strange sounds too. i’m looking up the ones i haven’t heard so thanks!

  21. ‘Crimson and Clover’ by Joan Jett and the Blackhearts is a personal favourite.
    When I was thirteen it was Blink-182. It’s a wonder I ever got laid.

  22. Don’t forget Anastasia’s “I’m out of love”. She empowered us in a vein that had not been touched since Gloria Gaynor’s “I will Surrive”!!!

  23. Don’t forget Anastasia’s “I’m out of love”. She empowered us in a vein that had not been touched since Gloria Gaynor’s “I will Surrive”!!!

  24. “Scandalous” by Prince, from the Batman soundtrack.

    Also, ‘cos I’m old, “Tonight’s The Night” by Rod Stewart.

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