identity ‘I Finally Realized I’m a Biromantic Homosexual. Now What?!’ “Am I totally alone in this bizarre orientation?” Summer Tao — Nov 4, 2025
relationships ‘My Wife-To-Be Has Different Cleaning Standards. Is That a Dealbreaker?’ “I honestly want to cry, I am so tired. Every time I bring it up she cries.” Summer Tao — Oct 28, 2025
friendship ‘My Long-Distance Bestie Is Hard To Talk to Because of His Chronic Illness’ Your friend isn’t in control of his illnesses and shouldn’t have to hold back his anxieties to make other people feel better. Summer Tao — Oct 21, 2025
dating ‘Am I Being Breadcrumbed Into a Situationship?’ With the boom of online dating, many young adults are finding themselves in situationships. Summer Tao — Oct 14, 2025
dating ‘Am I Queer or Just Repulsed by Straight Norms?’ There is no such thing as being queer “enough.” There is just being queer. Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Oct 7, 2025
friendship ‘I’m in Someone’s Close Friends List and Don’t Like It’ “I also am usually scrolling ig on public transportation and it’s just shocking to suddenly see a butt close up.” Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Sep 23, 2025
breakups ‘How Do I Heal From This Prolonged Breakup and Is Repair Possible?’ Does a prolonged breakup like this mean we’ll never be friends again? Summer Tao — Sep 9, 2025
coming out ‘I Really Want To Be Bi but I’m Unsure HELP’ Life got much easier when I learned I could keep a bunch of labels/self-identities in my pocket and swap them out as necessary. Summer Tao — Sep 2, 2025
dating ‘I’ve Been Out of the Sex/Dating Scene and I Feel Fine About It? I Think?’ It’s like I’m sexually active in theory but not in practice. Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Aug 26, 2025
dating ‘I Went on a Not-Quite-Date With a Woman in a Relationship and Now I’m Down Bad’ “Do I tell this person how I feel because I don’t find genuine emotional connections/attraction like this very often?” Summer Tao — Aug 19, 2025
breakups ‘How Do I Get My Ex To Stop Going To My Favorite Bar?’ “Do I have to give up this place I love so much? That seems so unfair!” Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Aug 12, 2025
health ‘I Feel Incredibly Bad and Guilty After Masturbating’ Feeling bad about masturbation is a remarkably normal thing, especially for people who were immersed (drowned) in shame from the beginning. Summer Tao — Aug 5, 2025
