af+ Newly Sober Girlfriend Is Harshing My Mellow You’ve compromised for her, but she still judges you for smoking weed. Also, is this out-of-state queer wedding worth the PTO? the team — Feb 28, 2025
af+ Neither Of Us Know How To Make the First Move Sober. Will We Ever Have Sex Again? Now that you’re sober, you’ve forgotten how to successfully initiate sex! Also, a reader’s partner has checked out post-election. the team — Jan 3, 2025
food lists 30 Winter Mocktails To Get Cozy With Queue up a fake fire on your TV and have mocktails by a mockfire. Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Nov 22, 2024
af+ Is It Fair For Our Newly Sober Friend To Make Our Group Hangs Sober Too? It just feels weird that the one sober person gets to decide that no one else can drink at dinner? Also, these gendered baby gifts ffs! the team — Sep 20, 2024
food lists Countdown to Pride: Mocktails in Every Color of the Rainbow It’s eight days to Pride! Get some inspiration for colorful, tasty nonalcoholic drink concoctions to serve yourself or loved ones! Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — May 30, 2023
first person 10 Things I Spend My Money on Now That Isn’t Drugs or Alcohol When I got sober, I also thought I would be saving so much money. What happened instead is that I found different ways to spend my money. danijanae — May 16, 2023
music Ranking The National Songs by How Much I’ve Cried to Them Trying to get sober was like pulling teeth. danijanae — Apr 17, 2023
food and drink Ranking Prebiotic Sodas by Taste (and Asking a Doctor What They Even Do) Finding drinks that scratch the alcohol craving itch for me is essential, and right now that thing is prebiotic sodas. danijanae — Mar 10, 2023
first person Seltzer Tastes Like Punishment There are so many good songs about drinking but none about seltzer, have you noticed that? A. — Mar 7, 2023
first person Here’s How Our Lives Have Improved Since Quitting Drinking: A Candid Conversation Between Sober Queers “I love that sober sex is so much better for me. Even masturbating is better.” danijanae, Analyssa, and Tracy Levesque — Aug 5, 2022
first person On Staying Sober and What TV Gets Right and Wrong About Alcohol “I feel like being the only sober person in a group is so much pressure.” danijanae, Analyssa, and Tracy Levesque — Jul 29, 2022
first person “When I Got Sober So Many Relationships Just Ended”: Sober Queers on Friendships and Community “I came to realize I am a terrible parent when I’m drunk.” danijanae, Analyssa, and Tracy Levesque — Jul 22, 2022
