Nature is healing.

Does anyone know what’s happening.

“Something I’m curious about is if straight coupling has always stood on a foundation of contempt. “

Is reading nonfiction case histories of women who love too much really what I want to do with my one wild and precious life?

“To everyone’s credit, something they never tell you about as a child is the metaphorical cowboy snowman ready to do the devil’s bidding in a marriage, so who, really, is to blame here?”

Siri, play “The Despair in a Man’s Eyes (Ft. Woman’s Euphoric Denial)” at full volume.

It’s dark in here and I’m scared!

“Could you not have shipped out some PPE before we read this article? I just spit out my tea laughing, and probably infected the tomato plants.”

A mini-edition of “Straight People Watch.” Also, Roxane Gay’s favorite things of 2019, menstrual cups can save you, and the history of Playboy’s first black cover girl.

As always: is anyone okay?

The holidays have come and gone, but straight people? Oh, they’re still here. More than ever.

The Bachelor is essentially just a weekly dose of Straight People Watch — but this season, for the first time in franchise history, a queer relationship between two women will be featured on-screen.

A journey from Frasier Crane through What’s That’s Smell to Seed Frisbee.

“Hello, is this a safe space where we can discuss the complete emotional dismantling perpetrated by Heather Hogan’s letter accompanying the fundraiser?”

Guess who are still not okay?

Heterosexual tomfoolery round up!

Let’s talk about queering up conventions through cosplay, art, and more!

I do not find my obsessions — they find me.

We do lose something when dedicated queer spaces like Into, Girlfriends and SheWired shutter or AfterEllen goes full TERF, but we also lose something when The Awl, The Hairpin and The Toast do. These were places where writers were free to experiment, to be weird, to make writer-first content that isn’t easily monetizable.

“I love that someone actually answered that they’re a ‘soup chef’.”