This week on NSFW Sunday: ex sex, explaining what lesbians do in bed, a smut writing manifesto, talking about porn in relationships and more.

This week in literature: reading writers you hate, choosing your own adventure, evolving libraries, an interview with Eileen Myles, Gertrude Stein and more.

“There are heaps of places to hang out and meet likeminded “Perthonalities.” Not to mention the beaches and forests here are goddamn beautiful.”

Miley Cyrus dreams of Katy Perry and pubic lice yearn for an unwaxed abode.

Bam! Season 2 has begun. This episode is called “The Quickening”, maybe for how quickly time has flown by since the end of last season. Kidding! It felt like forever and I wanted to die.

To be a rebel is to stand defiantly and purposefully in the face of something. It’s not defiance for its own sake: it’s a war cry into the darkness.

There’s a show full of queer women and you could help bring them to the masses! Wouldn’t that be neat?

CARA’S TEAM PICK: For everyone who was once young and queer and confused and is going to be in LA this weekend.

You voted and the results are in – the best 100 queer-lady fiction or memoir books of all time!

This holiday season, give the gift of smut.

This week on Glee everyone dressed up in spandex and rubbed themselves all over each other. Well, that’s partly true.

The writers I like tend to be women who live, or who have lived, in New York, and who write about girls, growing up, and what it’s like to be a human being in this world.

I bought tiny dreamcatcher earrings from a Navajo woman when I recently drove through Navajo Nation on a road trip. Am I unconsciously promoting cultural appropriation because I like the way webs and feathers look dangling from my ears?

Are you NaNoWriMoing? If you are, you’ve got something in common with Lesbianagers Kate and Nita!

But seriously, let’s get to the actually important stuff and talk about the lady with the flag in her hair and Donald Trump’s Twitter tantrum.

Rachel’s Team Pick: “Theory is different from real life, but it helps us figure out how to live.”

visual representation of the feeling of fall, sometimes

I hope you’re ready to answer some questions! We’ve got location anxiety, general anxiety, feelings about age differences, and should you be offended when someone says you look gay?

The lesbianagettes are feathering their nests for winter with friends, activities and lady loves.

Dan Savage wants a fight, Serbian gays want their city back, and P!nk wants record sales. And I want a drink, stat.