Zeke Smith and Nico Santos had the cutest gay wedding in Palm Springs! Also: Megan Rapinoe and Ali Krieger’s fairytale NWSL finals, Brynn’s possibly real crush on Jenna Lyons, queer X-Men, Chrishell Strause’s favorite Los Angeles hangs and more!

The woods are Escape. They have always held my personal ideal of “freedom” cradled in their branches.

By immediately introducing gender-shifting Jordan and probably-pansexual Emma, Gen V is already much queerer than The Boys.

Worse sex education and less adolescent autonomy has consequences — consequences no show can overcome. It’s admirable to watch this one try.

On discovering a doppelgänger in an unlikely place.

There’s a specific kind of trans masc quality to the way that Ken dresses and takes up space if I’m being honest. That’s the siren call, the Kenergy,

Straightness in Barbieland is cringe.

When I first saw the Yellowjackets pilot, I was so sure there was something going on between Shauna and Jackie.

It was L Word Day at the WGA Strike, so Ilene Chaiken announced that “Corporate Greed Killed Jenny.” Also, the 100 most significant political films of all time.

Plus updates on SaintX and How I Met Your Father.

Lies, truths, death, and friendship! Yellowjackets is back with another devastating episode.

It’s simple to mourn the alternate history where I came out as a teenager. It’s more complicated to mourn the alternate history where I came out later or not at all.

How far will you go for your favorite celebrity?

I was never much of a ring-wearer until I came out.

Join us for a rewatch this Thursday March 16th and a Premiere Watch-Along Friday March 24th!

Queer separatism never looked so good. Also: Honoring disability activist Judy Heumann.

Cocaine Bear has finally hit theaters. Apparently he only terrorizes straight people? But we couldn’t pass up an opportunity to be part of such an important cultural conversation. And so, we have ranked fictional bears by lesbianism. 

I am in the business of writing honestly, especially about the things that hurt — heartbreak, disappointment, shame, poverty.

Coping with fatphobia and QAnon relatives, hosting your first party, regifting and more!

I was in California for a conference when I heard about the Club Q shooting.