Stef and Lena all these years later, never change. Also updates on: Hightown, Death and Other Details, the season three finale of Raising Kanan, and the series finale of La Brea.

In case you missed it, queer artists like Reneé Rapp, Janelle Monáe, and Cardi B really gayed up New Year’s Rockin’ Eve. Also, Jodie Foster on True Detective, noted bisexual Kate Siegel on recasting Roderick in The Fall of the House of Usher and more!

“We spoke up. Hell, this was post-#MeToo era. We were heroes. I was… a hero. So, why did I feel so much shame when, a year later, a woman sexually assaulted me?”

Going it solo for Christmas is turning out to be annoyingly emotional. However, what’s helped immensely has been romanticizing the whole affair.

Plus, fliers from 90s gay clubs, fantasizing about MILFs, and hot union summer continues.

I really love a road trip comedy, especially one with rock solid storytelling.

I have not given up on Florida, even if for now it is best we spend time apart.

I’ve been willing to put this aside and accept the love she’s willing to give me. But it’s all come to a head now that my health insurance finally approved my top surgery.

I think this is always who I’ve been, and the other words were the ones I was trying on to see if they fit.

“Ain’t nobody trying to slow down! Life is fun. Keep doing it.”

We live in a society so oppressive to those of us who dare to imagine better that we have very little incentive to keep imagining.

I’ve been thinking a lot about what it takes to write a responsible dystopia.

“And here we thought the spruce syrup was just a tasty treat!”

Watching the first season during what I considered my second puberty was miserable. I could acknowledge its effectiveness, but I felt alienated.

Faltas: Letters to Everyone in My Hometown Who Isn’t My Rapist is an exciting and, at times, breathtaking addition to the canon of works about “messy trans lives.”

Straight rom-coms aren’t expected to properly evoke Marsha P. Johnson and gay romcoms shouldn’t have to either — of course, it helps that straight romcoms don’t try.

Roxane Gay on Brittney Griner (if you haven’t read it yet — you should), asexual Sims, and the new 988 helpline isn’t necessarily the relief to police intervention that’s been promised.

I will always love you, and I know you will always love me. Sometimes love isn’t enough.

Is it bad that your type is queer mascs / butches, are you burnt out, and how do you move on after your partner cheats on you with your best friend? The team answers all these questions, and more in our members-only advice column!

Also! Updates on Astrid & Lilly Save the World, Charmed, and All American.