“No one knows, including me, that my overindulgence and competitive drinking is an attempt to assert the only masculinity I know. Toxic.”

Also, we caught Janelle Monáe and Tessa Thompson suspiciously canoodling and Evan Rachel Wood has entered Friendsworld.

Come gather round the virtual campfire kindled by my deep and unassuming love for you and tell me everything!

Spinach artichoke dip is the modern woman’s creamed spinach.

There are few better paths to saving the republic than getting your fellow Americans registered. But where do you even start? Right here!

In the late 90s and early 00s, I was an awkward, shy, and nerdy girl so I naturally gravitated to girls in films that were… different, like me.

Plus updates on Queen Sugar, Younger, The Young & the Restless, General Hospital, and Critical Role.

This is a collection of some of the cutest, trendiest swimsuits available this season in multiple style categories and cut options in each to cater to different body types. I’ll also be showing off some of my favorite suits!

Sara Ramirez and Stephanie Beatriz want to be the sunshine in your lives, this administration remains a hellmouth, a roundup of the most rainbow places you can visit, and EVEN MORE LINKS FOR YOUR WEEK!

Almost 100 amazing humans sent pictures for our #TransDayOfVisibility Community Gallery! Get in here and celebrate our lives!

Plus updates on Queen Sugar, Legion, and Imposters

Octavia Butler and Janelle Monáe, lesbians in lists, Cardi B and SZA, and beautiful women in Drake’s new music video! This Sunday is definitely a funday!

Plus updates on General Hospital, The Young & the Restless, Critical Role, Mi Familia Perfecta, and Claws!

“You know how to make a point like no other laneia, and it is literally a joy every time”

MY FRIENDS GOT MARRIED, TWO MORE STRADDLERS GOT MARRIED! Also there are comments!

Just some gal pals who righteously and gleefully killed their predators, who ruined powerful men’s lives and careers.

“ok who sent me an autostraddle email address request for kristen stewart”

Stephanie Beatriz and Natalie Morales talk queer Latina power with the Advocate, refugee and activist belly dancer Shrouk El-Attar, a cafe in Mumbai that hires transgender servers, “Queering Desi,” Brazil makes legal gender marker changes easier, Mara Wilson on feminism and angry women, and of course Earring Magic Ken.

“I hadn’t yet come to terms with being a lesbian, so I also spent a lot of time making excuses not to have sex.”

Sometimes you need to get outside and remember who you are and who you want to be. These are the sex toys to bring with you.