Where to have public sex, how many dating apps you should be on, whether sex is better high or drunk, how your sex life relates to your masturbation life and more.

How to spank someone, how to not be an asshole, why double-ended dildos suck, the zodiac sign you should never date, Tyrannosaurus rex sex and more.

“I need advice on caring for leather items. Like for example the leather strap-on harness I bought over a decade ago which has mostly been sitting around in a drawer.”

Are they literary heavy hitters for which you’ll need a thesaurus and previous experience reading Nietzsche? No! Are they fun romps through a winter wonderland with queer characters? Yes! Are said characters often trapped in places and hate each other at first but then fall in love and there’s really no risk except that which makes the love even more defined? Yes!

“My favorite thing in the world is when people ask if it’s a mood ring so I can say yes.”

Sexual soulmates are a lie, fat sex week, Tinder on desktop, how transitioning changes sex, whether anyone is into threesomes and more.

Etsy’s “vaginal wellness” problem, why alone time is good for relationships, why being cheated on is physically bad for you, having secret orgasms at the gym and more.

A unicorn dildo, creating a healthy culture around sexuality and relationships, the technicolor photography of Maggie West and more.

We’ve packed and unpacked these items through several apartments, hung them up with care, and regularly touch the sleeves contemplatively although today could be the day. Reader, it’s not going to be the day! The day is not coming. Yet we can’t let go of these garments. Why not!

Netflix and relationships, science finally learns about the clitoris (sort of), the We-Vibe “scandal,” what we owe to sex worker activism and more.

“I’m adult and I’ve never cried over a haircut before and I don’t usually call my mom when I’m sad or frustrated or mad. She asked to see a photo of it. I sent her one and she asked me if the man hated queers, because this was clearly a hate crime.”

How to have anal sex for the first time, queer love in the anthropocene, a free online sex conference, fetish wear and fashion and more.

Sex, drugs and music in your brain; watersports; coming out as a queer feminist stripper; and more!

Also, someone threw Kehlani a surprise party and Hayley Kiyoko is kiiinda NSFW.

Finding love as a young trans woman, platonic sleepovers, your sex life and your work life, Estelle X on the future of queer representation and more.

“One time my coworker asked if I could dress any dykier and you know what? I don’t know. It’s pretty gay.”

When the sex we want is criminalized or considered more “perverted” than the sex cisgender heterosexuals are engaging in, a handkerchief in the back pocket is a quiet way to show off our sexual deviancy in a world that doesn’t want to see it.

How to love or fuck each astrological sign, every idea you ever wanted to hear about Tinder, dueling opinions on queer sex as resistance, homoerotic lingerie ads and more.

Safer sexting from a feminist perspective, everything about your ex, brains on BDSM, whether you need to wash your hands before fingering someone and more.

“I’m eating a candy cane and drinking wine and am like WOW I GUESS I NEVER LEAVE NOW”