“There’s really nothing like thinking about social justice while rubbing your clit.”

Types of libidos, healing crystal dildos, an open relationship comic and more.

You probably need therapy, or to masturbate, or both.

“The future of porn is feminist.”

Unofficial Sex Intern Julia reviews Curve Magazine’s Sex Issue with Jill & Cathy all up on the front. Also, Julia Voth on same-sexing in Bitch Slap, No Pants Dance, Vagina, 50 Sexiest Things from 2009, Broken, KY Jelly Intense works!, and Drew Barrymore retro.

How to pick out restraints, not worrying about being imaginative in bed, measures against revenge porn and more.

Safety and BDSM, many 50 Shades feelings, sex advice from the Notorious RBG, coming out like a porn star and more.

Audio porn, what you can learn from learning to have queer sex, communicating your sexual desires and more.

Authenticity and performativity in porn, having awesome sex with fat people, music and attraction and more.

Dildos past and present, a new queer hookup app, why the silent treatment is stupid, vaginismus, erotic exlibris and more.

Good winter sex, mutual vulnerability, the problems with how lingerie companies approach androgyny, supporting ethical porn and more.

Last year in sex toy technology, unserious speculation about your cat ruining your sex life, erotica and more.

The intersection of queerness, disability and sex; deciding what you want; making sex the thing you want it to be; and more.

Feminist porn, unnecessary sex ed outrage, masturbation and more.

Sneaky holiday sex, custom-printed toys, crushes and more.

The difference between theory and practice in non-monogamy, legitimizing your own sexual desire, vaginas that smell like peaches and more.

Holiday breakups, sex ed protests, knowing what you want, when what you want is a vibrator shaped like someone’s head, and more.

Drone Boning, explaining scissoring to straight people, not being a jerk in bed and more.

Watching lesbian porn in the making, maintaining a rich inner life, laughing during sex, a new type of vibrator and more.

Comfort sex, ordinary sex, a break-up exit strategy, the kinkiest countries and more.