What to do at your first orgy; horny cognitive dissonance; how to spank; how many people you’ve really had sex with; and more.

The truth about sex frequency, packing, having sex despite a significant height difference and many more lesbosexy things!

Sharing your fantasies, causal sex apps, making your own dental dams, How To Make Me Come and more.

Advice to your younger queer self, why LGBT-inclusive sex ed doesn’t have to be complicated, how healthy relationships operate and more.

Today’s topics include threesomes, sex and relationship myths, food aphrodisiacs and more!

Vintage lesbian erotica, making it easier for adult performers to get bank accounts, vibrators’ evolution and more.

Your first anal sex, your first kinky sex, why embarrassment has no place in the bedroom and more.

The Portland dildos, more reasons to masturbate, behind the scenes of Hysterical Literature, how to have sex when it’s too hot out to have sex, and more.

How to have sex on the beach (if you must), the history of dildos, Canadian sex positions, deconstructing anti-porn arguments and more.

Hooking up with your friends (but not on the beach), sex during or six weeks after pregnancy, lady-dating secrets and more.

Crying while masturbating, the first-ever accessible orgy in Toronto, having better one-night stands, multiple orgasms and more.

Making better porn at home, whether it’s okay to have sex when you’re staying on someone’s couch, queer non-monogamy, the history of polyamory and more.

Learning to masturbate as a trans woman, a dildo shaped like a gun, the Girl Sex 101 book, a field trip to a sex shop and more.

I’m on the mountain this week, so please enjoy the following smut.

Anal sex, erotica, squirting, why the number of people you’ve slept with is not relevant and more.

A dildo with ashes in it, better sex ed (and whether it should include porn), exercise orgasms and more.

How to ask for things in bed, relationships and money, developing a kinky identity, why people make so many noise complaints about loud sex and more.

Problems with the Feminist Porn Awards, mandatory LGBT sexuality- and gender-related education for everyone (and what happens in abstinence-based sex ed classes), poly dating and more.

A new queer-run feminist sex shop, consent and its sexiness, knot practice and more.

Safer sex tips for trans women, being a kinky feminist, what you can learn at an orgy and more.