111. I wrote hundreds of love letters to Janet Jackson. I never sent them, but was convinced that we would end up married some day.

You can scroll through my top ten shows and know exactly who I am and who I’ve been — a consistently queer, formerly goth, recovering musical theater nerd with a penchant for dry humor and scary women. Sharing this list is like showing you my diary if all my love poems were about Sandra Oh.

“When I read the interviews I’m like this doesn’t sound funny at all. But I swear it is. Just watch the show.”

Sailor Moon is coming to Youtube! Also here are some virtual concerts you can watch today and tonight, the art of nude selfies, and did we all know Dolly Parton funded Buffy the Vampire Slayer?????

Everybody on this list except Angela Chase really believes in themselves and I truly do appreciate that in a human being.

A prime selection of Mean Moms and Women Who Could Beat Me Up.

YES I’M CHEATING RIGHT OUT OF THE GATE DON’T @ ME.

One thing that does unite every show on this list is that each of them came into my life at the exact right time and also all influence my own writing in some way.

Wynonna Earp is funny and smart and full of found family feels, which I suppose is how it led me to my smart, funny found family.

Every asexual person has a moment when the recognition sets in. Those moments would come a lot easier if asexuality was more prominent in pop culture.

“I used to joke that it’s the song I want to get married to. And maybe I’m not joking.”

Finley’s Mom crashes a Thanksgiving episode with a spread that includes a Turkey Trot, a magic disappearing engagement ring, toxic Pumpkin Spice, alleged sexting and warm wine in a go-cup!

2020 was terrible in every way except for queer books. There were so many amazing queer books published this year! Here are 67 of the best of them.

The same character who won all the other rounds of voting, actually.

When I started watching this series, I never would have dreamed of comparing it to Buffy the Vampire Slayer, but here we are!

The Autostraddle TV Team takes on Twitter’s “Five TV Shows to Get to Know Me” meme. Yes, our relationships with television are perfectly fine and healthy THANKS.

Five vampire couples who may not be safe to hang around when they’re hungry, but are pretty good girlfriends

The time has come to determine, once and for all, whether or not Bette Porter could win an election! This is it! The final round!

Four contestants remain! This is the last round before the FINAL ELECTION.

Whether you’re interested in witches as a horror trope, a doorway to sex positivity, a topic of historical exploration, or rich characters and ideas in fiction or poetry, at least one of these witch books will bring something into your life!