How to Go on a First Date That Doesn’t Suck
Be who you are just as hard as you can. Also, be on time.
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Breakups and Being Alone 101: The Autostraddle Guide To Life After Love
We’ve got advice on breakups and exes, playlists to see you through, unhinged behavior we highly recommend and so much more from the annals of Autostraddle’s achy breaky hearts.
How to Have Strap-On Lesbian Sex
You’ve got your harness. You’ve got a dildo to use with it. So what happens next?
How to Buy a Strap-On Dildo for Lesbian Sex
Everything you need to know about choosing the right dildo for strap-on lesbian sex.
Shibari 101: Hogtie
Here’s how to put a few basic shibari ties together so you can hogtie your rope bottom!
How To Buy A Strap-On Harness for Lesbian Sex
Everything you need to know about picking out a strap-on harness.
Shibari 101: Leg Tie
Here’s how to do a basic shibari leg tie for beginners!
Shibari 101: Basic Chest Harness
Here’s how to make a basic shibari chest harness!
Shibari 101: Single- and Double-Column Ties
Single-column and double-column ties are the foundation for more complicated shibari ties, and they’re also fun on their own! Here’s how to get started.
How to Have Lesbian Sex With a Trans Woman
Sex between someone with a penis and someone with a vagina gets a lot of representation, but not when the penis-haver is a woman. Here’s everything you need to know about lesbian sex with trans women who have penises.
Shibari 101: Let’s Talk About Japanese Rope Bondage
Welcome to Shibari 101, your chance to learn the building blocks of Japanese rope bondage! Today, we’re talking about history, basics and safety.
How to Masturbate Like a Champ
May is Masturbation Month! Here’s your guide to doing you as only you can.
Why Lesbian Shower Sex Is Like Dante’s Inferno (And How to Make It Suck Less)
Everything you need to know about how to have lesbian shower sex, including positions, tips, how to avoid falling into the ninth circle of Dante’s Inferno and more.
How to Soundproof for Kinky Sex
If you want to make your sex or kink life a little quieter and a little more soundproof, here’s what you can try on your own.
How to Bring Butt Plugs Into Your Lesbian Sex Life
Regardless of gender and sexuality, everybody’s got a butt. Here’s how to try butt plugs for the first time, how to add butt plugs to lesbian sex, and how to find the butt plug that’s right for you.
10 Tips For Better Lesbian Sexting
Here’s how to take your sexting to the next level, including what to say, how to say it, how to give good sext and more.
How to Buy a Vibrator
My first vibrator sucked; here’s how to make sure yours doesn’t.
How To Eat Ass
Everyone has an ass. Here’s how to eat one.
How To Be Friends With Your Ex
Is it possible? Yes! Is it a good idea? Only sometimes! Here’s everything you need to know about being friends with your ex-girlfriend.
How to Write a Non-Monogamous Dating Profile
Here’s how to fly your consensually non-monogamous, polyamorous, consensually open relationship or whatever else flag in your dating profile so you get the best possible interactions from it.
How To Have A Lesbian Threesome
Planning your first threesome? Here’s how to do it.