“i do love that you are holding barefoot wine in that nervous breakdown picture”

We all sat in a big circle. We were asked to share. I told them that I’d recently moved back to Seattle, only a month ago, after having been gone for about seven years. My mom died a very violent death here, I said.

Real life worries from readers like you! Including: coming out at any age, getting comfortable with butt sex, and so many questions about moving! Get ready! It’s a party!

In this trying episode, Ava and Sara try to keep Gary’s wishing at bay, Nora tries to save Mona, and Charlie and Zari try to stop Neron.

With Gillian Anderson’s Sex Education landing on Netflix, it feels like the perfect time to gather our TV Team and talk about sex on TV, specifically queer sex on TV, and its evolution over these many years.

There were a lot of awesome 2018 queer books. Here are the year’s best!

I claimed to be a kid who “just loved birthdays,” when what I really loved was a socially sanctioned reason to shower my crushes with affection.

These are the television shows of 2018 that stand out for their artistry and innovation AND also feature lesbian, bisexual, queer or trans women characters.

It’s our epic guide to some of the best places to eat, learn, walk, shop, party and be queer in Los Angeles.

Our BIGGEST ADVICE BOX EVER! Highlights include: tips for lesbian sex on an airplane, helping others to use your correct pronouns, how to survive a family holiday, getting over your first high school heartbreak, getting out of an abusive relationship, finding new friends as a queer adult, and dental dams! Just to name a few!

We have to commit to always learning and growing and doing more all the time to make our spaces better and better.

“I hadn’t yet come to terms with being a lesbian, so I also spent a lot of time making excuses not to have sex.”

“I wanted to be single so I could explore my sexuality. Instead I was exploring other people’s.”

You shared some very thrilling stories with us on our recent Queer Travel Survey. Here are highlights of your adventures!

Sometimes you need to take your cute superhero girlfriend out for a movie and stroll through the park. And then sometimes, you have to leave her.

Hope you’re feeling nostalgic! You have 48 hours to vote for your favorites!

“Is this how cis white dudes feel all the time?”

“SHIT WAS GAY HEATHER
SHIT HAS BEEN GAY”

What impresses me most about The Bisexual isn’t that it skewers The Discourse, but that it ignores it completely in favor of having an actual conversation.

“At the start of every year, I feel an itch to plan and make vision boards and examine my life and my goals. I knew one thing on my 2018 to-do list was certain and it was getting married and having a wedding.”