When you can’t get out of bed until you come, sex in lucid dreams (and how to try it), how the tech industry is afraid of sex toys and more.

She stared at the camera as she slowly took off her dress; she liked the way Hank looked at her through the screen, his mouth parted, his eyes wide. She could hear his breathing, and she loved the way he gasped when she did anything that made him particularly proud. FaceTime sex was full of its own cues and rhythms. It was hot.

The holidays make people horny, apparently (?). Plus when vulvas taste like vulvas, why exes are a plague this time of year, a cis-trans lesbian couple who found each other in the closet and more.

Here is a beginner’s guide to sending really hot sexts to your casual date, your girlfriend, and every babe in between. You’re welcome.

Naomi is leaving scratches on my chest, grasping for anything to hold onto while she sits on my face.

Stone femme erotica, public sex without getting caught, and more.

“Marry me so we can live in a tiny house!”

Welcome to Home Alone for the Holigays! Where our writers welcome you to spend the day with them virtually and live-tweet one of their favorite holiday films. Come kick it with Carolyn, watch Oceans 11 and escape into their sleepy Solstice.

FOSTA/SESTA are part of why Tumblr is banning sex, opening a closed relationship, why love is not a state of constant enthusiasm and more.

Leatherdyke zines and history, what foods you can put in a vagina or asshole, why sleep makes everything better except for the bad sex writing awards and more.

Why it’s okay to feel lonely even if you have a partner, why it’s a great idea to slide into her insta DMs, what sex dreams might mean and more.

This week, the internet got obsessed with pubic hair. Also: how to be more dominant in bed, sexts to send when you’re out of ideas, the hot new trend of later-in-life lesbianism and more.

“Yesterday I thought to myself, ‘I wonder what GayStew is doing in quarantine?’ And this morning I find myself reading this.”

The Tumblr and Facebook bans on sexuality-related photos and words, a photo series about healing through queer BDSM, how to consciously choose boundaries and more.

When you slide in, the girls unnestle and immediately home in on your navel. They lick their lips and lunge forward. One digs in with both sets of claws.

Being conscientious makes you better at lesbian sex or any sex; what commitment-phobia is actually about; and cuffing season is cancelled, sorry not sorry.

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You are just picking up Naomi. Your very good friend, Naomi, whom you have only not-so-jokingly offered to take up on her not-so-joking offer to fuck for a decade. She literally just got emotionally gut punched by some fuckboy. Don’t be another fuckboy. Not today. Unless she initiates. Fuck, she always initiates. Fuck, I missed my exit.

The science on cuffing, bad patterns from astrological signs, moving on when something doesn’t work out, why you should use the word “vulva” when you’re talking about a vulva, and more.

What if we all dated but didn’t text constantly or at all? Plus: stop making sex about the orgasms, how to talk dirty during sex, finding queer asexual intimacy and more.