NSFW Sunday Is Just Like The First Time

Feature of Jiz Lee and Nikki Darling in the Crash Pad Series episode Training Day. All of the photographs in this NSFW Sunday come from CrashPadSeries.com. The inclusion of a photograph here should not be interpreted as an assertion of the model’s gender identity or sexual orientation. If you’re a photographer or model and think your work would be a good fit for NSFW Sunday, please email carolyn at autostraddle dot com.

Welcome to NSFW Sunday!

Daisy Ducati and Jessica Creepshow

Daisy Ducati and Jessica Creepshow in Crash Pad Series episode 214

+ Every time we fuck, we win:

“There is tremendous power in queer sex. It’s an act of pleasure, intensity, raw emotion, and joy. But our sex is also profoundly political. We live in a world that has criminalized our sex and pathologized our sexuality. This country has a long history of laws against queer sex, as well as, against the bodies of people of color, trans folk, and women. We are often most vulnerable when it comes to out physical bodies and our sex. The people who pass these laws want us to be afraid and ashamed of queer sex. That is where their power lies. But our power lies in the simple yet radical act of queer bodies coming together to pursue pleasure and intimacy. Our sex is how we defy homophobia, sexism, racism, and transphobia. It’s how we can fuck the status quo and upend the world we now find ourselves in.”

Jayogen and Mia Li making out

Jayogen and Mia Li in Crash Pad Series episode 215

+ Every time is just like the first time.

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+ Sex toys are less likely to contain harmful chemicals than children’s toys, according to a Swedish study that found of tested toys, 2% of sex toys contained harmful or banned chemicals, compared to 15% of children’s toys.

+ If you’re getting your first bikini wax because you own your own body and can do what you want to it and I will delete comments that say otherwise do not fuck with me, make sure to wait for enough hair to grow in first, know that it feels more like a teeth cleaning than anything during, and skip anything sweat-inducing after.

+ Adult VR is getting more immersive and popular than ever.

+ Porn traffic dropped significantly during the Women’s March, reports PornHub.

+ At Oh Joy Sex Toy, Erika Moen reviewed the Motorbunny, a motorized fuck machine, calling it “profoundly unpleasant no matter what we tried in which hole.”

+ In the United Kingdom, you can’t file for divorce for adultery if your spouse has a same-sex affair, even if you’re in a same-sex marriage. (Bi erasure is also a given.)

An older butch-femme pair fucking missionary-style on the CrashPad bed.

Butch Stud and subMissAnn in CrashPadSeries episode 228

+ College students don’t understand how people with vulvas actually reach orgasm, but virtual vulvas might make understanding orgasm more accessible:

“This concept has the potential to do two big things. First, by exposing women to images of real vulvas, it might help them become more comfortable and confident in their own genital appearance. Consider, for instance, a new study published in the Journal of Psychosomatic Obstetrics & Gynecology: Scientists showed female college students one of two different photo slideshows. Half of the participants viewed images of other women’s vulvas, while the other half viewed neutral images, such as photos of art, architecture, and nature. As it turns out, the women who saw vulvas reported feeling the most positive about their own genitals afterwards. This wasn’t a fleeting effect, either—when the researchers followed up with these women two weeks after they saw the slideshow, those who viewed vulvas continued to report more comfort with their bodies than those who saw neutral images.”

Carolyn Yates was the NSFW Editor (2013–2018) and Literary Editor for Autostraddle.com, with bylines in Nylon, Refinery29, The Toast, Bitch, Xtra!, Jezebel, and elsewhere. They live in Los Angeles and also on twitter and instagram.

Carolyn has written 1053 articles for us.

11 Comments

  1. While I like the sentiment of fucking for victory, I clicked on the full article and the author links to a disturbing piece defending child abuse…describes ‘men who love underaged youth’ as ‘the victims of a savage and undeserving witch hunt’. Just thought you might like to know.

  2. Thanks so much, Caroline! You’re on FIRE in this NSFW SUNDAY! The pornhub stats (what?!) and the real live “how to please a vagina” app via omgyes alone knocked me off of my feet-then adding the sweet cartoon in “every time was like the first time” made me smile and cry! I literally spent the entire morning checking these links w my lady and we had a great time! A NSFW Sunday for the books!

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